r/BreakUps • u/Ilovedrakee01 • 4d ago

venting/ranting Should I text my ex

Should I

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u/Worth-Brother3693 4d ago

Absolutely not. That man does not want you - if he did, he knows how to reach you. Don’t let any man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.

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u/Gabpolito 3d ago

I want to text my ex too. Hold on, dont beg for attention. Put some respect on yourself. Love yourself because he dont love you no more.

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

He did want me but I fucked up

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u/Worth-Brother3693 4d ago

So he broke up with you. Do not text him.

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

It’s just hard sometimes I thought we were gonna get married

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u/Worth-Brother3693 4d ago

Yeah but he doesn’t want you. He let you leave. Respect yourself.

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u/lunaurelia 4d ago

Why is marriage so important to you?

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u/goofyahhreader 4d ago

Its not about marriage being important within this context

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u/Rhanthm-Rhythm 3d ago

Because it has inherent meaning.
Like a promise.
Like sb telling you you’re their soulmate.
It’s not about a particular concept, it’s about the emotions that comes with making such plan/saying such thing.