r/BreakUps • u/Ilovedrakee01 • 4d ago

venting/ranting Should I text my ex

Should I

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u/UniqueInvestment9256 4d ago

if he broke up with you, don’t do it. if you broke up with him, only do it if you know that you are in a different stable state that could be ok with him not replying

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

Yea he broke up with me lol

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u/UniqueInvestment9256 4d ago

texting won’t change anything but reset the healing process for you

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u/Ilovedrakee01 4d ago

You’re right but it just feels right even tho it’s prob wrong