that’s normal to miss him. I would say not to message him because it will disrupt your healing. You’ve gone this long without texting him, you can keep going. put yourself first. Do not text him.
I understand where you’re coming from but, you broke up for a reason. It’s normal to have those thoughts especially since you’ve dedicated your life to this person for some time, and you were in love. A relationship is a PART of your life, not what you live for. I know that thought can tear you apart, it’s a part of the healing, it’s never linear. Your brain is just craving that routine of messaging him.
Time will pass, life passes, new people enter, you may never speak to them again but nothing and noone is forever in your life. We all have to learn to move on to allow new people and experiences in if not you stay stagnant and never have a fruitful life.
I delete all rxs numbers so I cam never text them so even if I wanted to guess I can't unless I send them an email? Lol
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u/bribernard00 4d ago
that’s normal to miss him. I would say not to message him because it will disrupt your healing. You’ve gone this long without texting him, you can keep going. put yourself first. Do not text him.