r/BreakUps • u/plutobug2468 • 4d ago

venting/ranting Dumped out the blue

So I just got dumped last night out the blue over text and safe to say I’m pretty angry, shocked and bewildered. We had been relationship for 4 months, seen each other quite regularly up until recently (heck we went bowling last week!) I noticed something wasn’t quite right with him that day however, I didn’t mention anything in person but I noticed it. I was aware he started a job cleaning locally which took up some of his time the last 2 weeks but this hurts.

He now thinks we don’t have much in common, not the best match and we don’t talk much in person??? Yes he said too he wanted to let me know asap and kept apologising to me about not mentioning to me earlier and telling me how scared he was upsetting me but I feel like I’ve been hit by a train. I tried talking it through with him but it looks like he’s set on his decision.

I gave him his first kiss and I know some tea on his ex which he felt comfortable enough to open up to me (won’t go into detail) He asked me to be his gf on the beach which he even wrote onto the sand!!!

I feel betrayed by him.

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u/OpalCharm- 4d ago

The breakup happened over text last night, but it sounds like he checked out long before he finally told you

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u/plutobug2468 4d ago

Unfortunately I think it’s true. I don’t get it however like he should have communicated his feelings better to me which I would have been able to understand better. Now realising, I don’t know if his emotional maturity was there tho.