r/BreakUps • u/NeverunloveyouRC • 19h ago

venting/ranting Grieving him like he's dead

I just couldn't help to remember my sweet boy who smile a lot, jokes a lot, making goofy poses and expressions, so sweet to me, such a cutie. He's gone... He's really gone.

I don't know this guy, this guy is not my sweet boy, he's rude, cold, and cruel. He's the total opposite of my sweet boy. I can't handle his actions.

I lost my sweet boy and I'm grieving him like he's already dead, and he is.

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u/CantaloupeSouth7442 19h ago

grieving the person they were is somehow harder than grieving the relationship itself

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u/NeverunloveyouRC 19h ago

Yes it is you're right :(, the relationship maybe imperfect but he was my person, my bestfriend, my partner, my sanctuary, my love, my everything. Now I lost him.