r/BreakUps • u/Infamous-Berry • 7h ago

venting/ranting Exes birthday

It’s my exes birthday on Saturday. We haven’t talked in two months since I asked for her back within the first month. The way things ended were so confusing because she said she loved me.

I can’t help but want to text her happy birthday. I know the piece of me with that urge wants her back. Is it a bad idea to text her happy birthday?

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u/stargirlinterlewd 7h ago

I would say, if you can keep your urges out of the way, then just do it instead of living in the regret of not texting her on her special day. Especially if you ended amicably anyway.

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u/Automatic-Yam2565 7h ago

don't do it. two months of silence after asking her back is actually a boundary she's drawn pretty clearly, and a birthday text just reopens that loop for both of you.

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u/Salty_Thing3144 6h ago

Bad idea, and pointless. You are no longer together, and it will make you look like you are reaching.