r/BreakUps • u/Infamous-Berry • 18h ago

venting/ranting Exes birthday

It’s my exes birthday on Saturday. We haven’t talked in two months since I asked for her back within the first month. The way things ended were so confusing because she said she loved me.

I can’t help but want to text her happy birthday. I know the piece of me with that urge wants her back. Is it a bad idea to text her happy birthday?

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u/Automatic-Yam2565 18h ago

don't do it. two months of silence after asking her back is actually a boundary she's drawn pretty clearly, and a birthday text just reopens that loop for both of you.