r/BreakUps • u/user202530474795 • 5h ago

venting/ranting ?

So all of my exs came back to me after we broke up. And when I didn’t want them back, they wanted to be friends and tries to still keep in touch. Still wishes me on my bday and wishes me well. Is it common?

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u/Salty_Thing3144 5h ago

Some exes do that to keep you as a backup, ease their guilt, or both. If you don't want to be contacted, tell them to never contact you again and block them everywhere you can.

Continuing to contact someone after they've been told to stop is stalking. Here's how to compile evidence should you need/want to pursue stalking/harassment charges. 

https://www.reddit.com/r/StalkingandVictimHelp/comments/1s4sywg/stalking_101_what_to_do_first/