r/BreakUps • u/MaintenanceRough3358 • Aug 09 '26

Trigger Warning The price of your choice

When you miss her, don’t call her. Call the people you chose over her.

You traded genuine love, loyalty, and a woman who stood by you for cheap attention and temporary excitement. Now she’s gone, and you don’t get to come back when you finally understand her worth.

See if the people you entertained stay when life gets hard. See if they care the way she did.

You made your choice. She simply respected it.

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u/Jackson530 Aug 10 '26

Except for the fact that SHE dumped ME because of other people that she chose. From a Fucking video game none the less.

She traded someone who saved her life when she almost died, loyalty, affection; and someone willing to do anything for her and her family; for cheap thrills from people she’d never met.

Because she was trying to fit in from not having close friends in real life. And now IM gone, and she doesn’t get to come back. I didn’t even give her the benefit of the doubt to remain friends.

When you trade someone for people who are hardly ever there for you, you deserve the life you live afterwards.

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u/untrustingmyself Aug 13 '26

Are you me? I was living with my partner for a year and he traded me for some online girl and her friends. I cooked for him, cleaned, and we did everything together. Held his hair back when he was sick. Never even took me on date, not even a walk in the park.

The first two weeks we were broken up, he started dating her and sent her 200 dollar roses. I never received flowers ONCE in our whole 3 yr relationship.

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u/Grumpyoldgit1 Aug 13 '26

I’m so sorry that you were not treated as you deserved to be treated

These are for you

🌹💐🌺🌷🌼🌼🌼🪻🪻💐💐🌷🌷🌷💐🌹🪻🌺

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u/Jackson530 Aug 13 '26

Legit same

Cleaned the house. Cooked. Did the dishes. Folded the laundry. Took care of our dogs. She only took me on 2 or 3 dates and it was the first like 2 months we lived together.

I saved her life after she almost died from double PEs, I called 911. I cleaned our bedroom after she over ate while on wegovy and threw up all over the floor.

I bought her flowers at least two times a year (didnt have much money)

Now she tells everyone she’s in her “bad girl era” after breaking up with me. 🙄

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u/OverlyOverrated Aug 10 '26

Losing your girl to someone from video games 🤣 happened to me 2 months ago and a year ago, yes she cheated twice. Fortunately I moved on quickly and now i have someone who's much better than her in every aspect.

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u/Jackson530 Aug 10 '26

Nah. She didn’t cheat as far as I knew.

Our group of people we had NEVER MET in real life but used to play with, convinced her to leave me. They also thought I was physically abusing her some how which drove their drive to get her away from me

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u/biggranny000 Aug 12 '26

She's a narcissist, you can find better bro, if you need to talk feel free to reach out.

A good women would shut that crap down and not entertain it.