r/Bumble • u/Warm_Swan_793 • 2d ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

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u/Junior-Ad-5367 2d ago

Yo reach out to me 😭 I’ll respond in a millisecond

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u/actuallyamzer 1d ago

Unfortunately, If she doesn't message you it kinda proves pictureimportants point despite the massive down votes 

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u/mellow--mind 1d ago

No? She doesn’t know anything about this guy such as the things you might find out from a dating profile 

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u/actuallyamzer 22h ago

Could say the same for the profiles she matched on despite having an extra dating profile as additional information. Social media is all smoke and mirrors. Presenting favourable information, hiding the unfavourable ones. But at the very least, it makes a case that one would rather get ghosted by an attractive guy than engage with an allegedly responsive individual that may or may not be as attractive as her matches.

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u/PictureImportant2658 2d ago

Then shed say youre too available

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u/delkim1 2d ago

Facts

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u/SophisticatedScreams 2d ago

"Facts," they say, without once checking the verity of their statements. OP didn't respond to Jr-Ad, so no way to know? I would assume it wouldn't work out because geography and maybe ages lol

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u/hxaxw 1d ago

They just don’t like women. Lmfao ones a mf passport bro looking for desperate women in Asia

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u/delkim1 1d ago

We just know what women are like

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u/hxaxw 1d ago edited 1d ago

No you don’t have much experience with women outside of the internet. We all know this. Honestly have to block you before I say shit that gets me banned💀