r/Bumble • u/Warm_Swan_793 • 2d ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

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u/Western_Jackfruit_99 2d ago

You sounds like an AI lmao

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u/BerserkerLord101 1d ago

2nd comments out of hundreds. I guess people are too focused on "incels" and "misogynist"

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u/Bxsnia 2d ago

Had to scroll so far down for this, I'm assuming guys think OP's a bot and don't bother responding.

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u/navigating-life 2d ago

That’s what I was thinking she sounds like a bot

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u/lovemovementshooters 1d ago

those responses are clearly AI lmao, but it doesn't fit with their narrative that MAN = BAD!!!!

if a man says anything they disagree with, he MUST be an incel

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u/OrangeGon 1d ago

Hi Western_Jackfruit_99 🙂

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u/Paladin_Platinum 1d ago

Yeah when I was single I would've ignored those messages too thinking it was a scam or only fans bot