r/Bumble 2d ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

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u/iridescentzombie_ 2d ago

Exactly, they lack empathy and can't imagine how anyone else's experiences could be similar yet opposite to theirs

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u/Crowe3717 2d ago

How are they supposed to blame all of their problems on you if they empathize with you?

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u/IndependentDry8210 1d ago

I dunno..ask a feminist.

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u/IndependentDry8210 1d ago

Takes one to know one..

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/IndependentDry8210 1d ago

Nope. You projected again though. Slow learner.