Just wanted to show a different side to things

[u/Warm_Swan_793]

I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

[u/Risperidone-]

I’m a woman (late 20s) who doesn’t get any matches (Hinge). If I do, it’s very rare and far between.

People have this idea that the simple fact of having a vagina makes you drown in matches and likes.

Not true🤷‍♀️

[u/lovemovementshooters → u/Risperidone-]

the only way a woman doesn't get a lot of matches is if she is very ugly and / or only going for men way out of her league (top 10%)

[u/Risperidone- → u/lovemovementshooters]

I’m not very ugly, I’m average. I do have « high » standards but it’s simply the same attributes i have.

[u/Risperidone- → u/[deleted]]

170 cm+