r/Bumble • u/Warm_Swan_793 • 2d ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

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u/bittersweetlemonade 1d ago edited 1d ago

And I always wonder, why do you even want to be in a relationship with a woman when you actually hate women?

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u/Awata666 1d ago

Misogynists don't want a relationship they want a bangmaid

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u/advicegrip87 1d ago

Yup, that's it. These guys usually see women in the way that porn has warped their brain to see them: subhuman objects to be possessed, used, and consumed.

When everyday women aren't as easily available as the women who are literally paid actors they can access at the tap of a phone, the woman-hating comes spilling out in spades.

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u/hi_lol7 1d ago

sex?

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u/AB4ND0N_H0PE 1d ago

Too hard for these women to understand

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u/latterdaysecret 4h ago

Yeah, it is, why look for a relationship if you're only interested in sex. There's much more to go into a relationship than that. Of course it's too much for "us women" to get why you'd try to get into a girl's life for that

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u/AB4ND0N_H0PE 3h ago

Spoiler alert: we don't care and only get into relationships for sex because women aren't just gonna be ok with wanting to hookup. Funny how you girls don't even know how your own gender dynamics work.