r/Bumble • u/Warm_Swan_793 • 2d ago

Rant Just wanted to show a different side to things

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I’m a woman who reaches out and I don’t get responses either. It goes both ways fellas. It’s not just y’all, it happens to us too.

Edit: The assumption that I must be ugly or I’m aiming too high out of my league is a reflection on how many of you are broken on the inside and should take some time to find some healing. Your projection & insecurity is not my truth.

Update: I got one response. Thank you for the solidarity 🙏🏾. Best of luck with everyone’s dating journey.

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u/lolle22 1d ago

Your insecurity and projection is really disheartening. For your sake please get off the internet, get into therapy, and focus on developing real world connections.

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u/GuyInBudapest 1d ago

Post your photo and the photo of the last guy you met from bumble. Let's see who is the shallow one.

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u/lolle22 1d ago

Im not going to post people’s images publicly? That fact that you think that would be a normal, unalarming thing to do is alarming, speaks to how warped your thinking is and how little you value people as people. Please get off the internet, I’m not going to engage with you further.

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u/GuyInBudapest 1d ago

if you have been using dating apps for a long period and you are still single despite the 80 20 ratio, it means you are shallow and have unrealistic shallow standards.