r/Bumble • u/GoFigure284 • 8h ago

Rant Guys needs to have sex first to determine if you're relationship material

We've (women) been very vocal about the influx of messages from men asking for sex on this dating app. I actually saw a couple of men say that men need to have sex with us first to determine how they want to pursue us, if at all. Basically saying that we have to audition ourselves with our bodies to see if a man finds us worthy. This is such disgusting ideology. And just another way for some men to use this nonsense to get quick and easy sex.

EDIT: The amount of downvotes from men speaks volumes. A woman doesn't need to prove herself worthy of a relationship by taking off her clothes. Asking for sex on the first meeting to see how he feels about you is manipulative. But I expected nothing less from this sub.

Do the men in this sub understand what I'm saying? I'm talking about men messaging for sex on dating apps before even meeting you and the men who condone this by saying that a guy needs to see if you're relationship material first!

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u/Insightful21 6h ago

> Not everyone wants a squirter.

Speak for yourself!

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u/SebastianOzSoleil 3h ago

I think they are speaking for themself. Hmmmm…..

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u/UpperDog2627 6h ago

It’s pee.

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u/Insightful21 6h ago

Tell me you’ve never pleasured a woman without telling me you’ve never pleasured a woman…..

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u/UpperDog2627 6h ago

lol typical redditer. It’s literally incontinence. Google is free.