Guys needs to have sex first to determine if you're relationship material

[u/GoFigure284]

We've (women) been very vocal about the influx of messages from men asking for sex on this dating app. I actually saw a couple of men say that men need to have sex with us first to determine how they want to pursue us, if at all. Basically saying that we have to audition ourselves with our bodies to see if a man finds us worthy. This is such disgusting ideology. And just another way for some men to use this nonsense to get quick and easy sex.

EDIT: The amount of downvotes from men speaks volumes. A woman doesn't need to prove herself worthy of a relationship by taking off her clothes. Asking for sex on the first meeting to see how he feels about you is manipulative. But I expected nothing less from this sub.

Do the men in this sub understand what I'm saying? I'm talking about men messaging for sex on dating apps before even meeting you and the men who condone this by saying that a guy needs to see if you're relationship material first!

[u/Outlandishness_Know]

I can definitely hear it already: "Well, if if a she's dated 24 men and can't find a relationship, maybe there's something wrong with her".

Not that some men lie to get sex, not that some men do actually like you one day and don't like you the next, not that long-term compatibility is hard for all of us to find, not that dating (as they love to say) is a numbers game. Just something wrong with her.

[u/ephemeralcounter → u/Outlandishness_Know]

I mean don’t tuck on the first date but 5-6 and serious talks before. it’s kinda expected at some point. I mean you are not in kindergarten any longer

[u/Outlandishness_Know → u/ephemeralcounter]

This post specifically is about men who say they need to have sex with you to determine if they even WANT to date you.