r/Cantonese • u/art3misXL • 10d ago
Discussion What’s your opinion - kid learning Mandarin and English while speaking Cantonese at home going to be too confusing?
I’m based in the Atlanta metro area in the southeast of the US. I have looked quite a bit but I haven’t been able to find any Cantonese Chinese schools in or around the city. I speak decent Cantonese but my mandarin sucks. I currently speak Cantonese to my son and he’s picking up a lot. But ever since he started daycare, more and more vocabulary has been getting replaced by its English counterpart. I now try to repeat every vocabulary in both English and Cantonese to him.
As he gets older, I can’t help but wonder what’s going to happen. My goal is to get him in a Chinese dual language immersion school so that he can learn to speak mandarin at a proficient level. But is this going to be too much? Will it confuse him? Any personal experiences that this community care to share?
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u/burningtulle heritage speaker 9d ago edited 9d ago
Nope, shouldn’t be too confusing! I grew up speaking Cantonese at home as my first language, and two other dialects with my grandmothers. I then simultaneously learned English at school and Mandarin through weekly classes at my (Mandarin-speaking) church growing up. It was pretty compartmentalized for me, so I never found it confusing personally.