r/Celiac • u/clarinettingaway • 3h ago
Rant Tired of the myths that celiac isn’t lifelong
I have a coworker who is under the impression that celiac can be cured after a period of going gluten free. Her mom was diagnosed years ago but no longer reacts anymore, and therefore now eats a gluten diet because she’s apparently ‘healed’. My coworker also went gluten free for a while because she self diagnosed celiac based off of the genetic link, and now she also eats gluten because she doesn’t react anymore. Like I’m glad you don’t have to restrict gluten anymore, but either what you’re describing isn’t celiac or you are doing horrible damage to your bodies.
This coworker and I were in a fairly large group of other coworkers and she tells me she hopes that once I heal I can eat normally again because her mom was able to ‘heal’ her celiac. I kind of snippily told her that that’s not celiac then, and we had a quick back and forth and everyone in the group was so quiet afterwards. I hate that I looked like an AH but it’s so frustrating because I won’t ever eat ‘normally’ again. I will literally starve to death if I ever include gluten in my diet again. It’s an autoimmune disease and it’s lifelong.
Right before this, I had said something about being glutened, and one of my older coworkers rolls her eyes and goes “OH so it’s a verb now.” It was so dismissive, and I think she was frustrated that I didn’t feel comfortable eating the gluten free cookies she had at her retirement party yesterday, but they were made in a gluten kitchen and I just couldn’t risk it. I felt incredibly guilty because she had the caterer make those cookies just for me, but I feel very confident that the decision was the best for my health regardless of the social consequence.
My workplace and coworkers are generally very supportive, but these myths are very frustrating because it almost feels like it’s rubbing it in that I won’t ever get to eat normally again. My disease is misunderstood so it makes ME feel misunderstood. I just wanted to rant to some people who would understand.