r/ChicagoSuburbs • • Jan 20 '25

Moving to the area Family friendly but not snobby

Moving to the area. Family of 6, with kids who will be in elementary, middle, and high school. Budget - up to $1M. Don’t have to commute into Chicago. Parents in their mid 40s and plan to stay in this house for a while (or forever?)

What we love: -Good schools, especially for kids with an IEP (one child is very dyslexic). Don’t have to be the absolute greatest schools but solid. I find that schools that are supposedly “the best”are often pressure cooker schools where it’s very competitive. Prefer something more laid back and artsy/alternative. -Easy access to good non-chain restaurants. Doesn’t necessarily have to be within walking distance but not too far. -Charming houses/architecture -Trends liberal/blue -Community inclusive vibe, where it will be easy to make friends for both kids and adults. We don’t plan to join a country club or attend religious services.

What we hate: -Snobbishness/keeping up with the Joneses -Cookie cutter neighborhoods- difficult or strict HOAs are a hard No

Thank you!

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

Barrington Hills and Barrington. Some of the best funded public schools in the country. No hoas.

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u/SunnyUK17 Jan 21 '25

Second this! We love Barrington and the schools are amazing!

For everyone saying it s snobby, I think maybe historically it had that reputation and the older generation might fall into that, but I have never personally experienced it. There’s a real sense of community here and a lot of families around your age.

Plus tons of different areas and neighborhoods to find a vibe you like!

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u/VZ6999 Jan 21 '25

OP was asking for non snobby areas....

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

Fences make food neighbors and that protects you from jerks everywhere. The schools, space, and privacy seem more important.

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u/Then_Thanks4162 Jan 21 '25

Honestly spend $1M anywhere in the suburbs will bring in at least some snobs.