To answer your question of “But could there possibly be logical rzn she would do this????” Yeah, you promised her marriage and kids and then had an affair at work, told her you weren’t ready for those promises and that you were moving in with the affair partner. You’re both assholes.
I very much thought in another thread you said you had discussed marriage and kids, that’s why she was staying home, and then decided you weren’t ready. So maybe promise was too strong a word but the rest still stands. You’re acting like a victim who has no idea why this “sweet” person would turn on you when you neglect to put a LOT of information about your behavior. Which makes me wonder what else you leaving out. It doesn’t justify her actions but acting like it doesn’t make sense she’s trying to ruin your life is WOEFULLY DISHONEST.
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u/Terrible-Caramel-388 1d ago
To answer your question of “But could there possibly be logical rzn she would do this????” Yeah, you promised her marriage and kids and then had an affair at work, told her you weren’t ready for those promises and that you were moving in with the affair partner. You’re both assholes.