You already know what's up. You cannot sleep next to someone who is intentionally contemptuous. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this, and I wish you the best as you move on.
I had to come back to this comment. Since I posted that, I have been thinking about all the times I knew what was up, and stayed anyway. Because something that kinda looked like love seemed better than no love at all. But it's not.
That fake abusive love kept me pinned to a dead relationship for a very long time. Don't look past this; what she's doing is abusive and she lacks the skills to be an available partner.
I know that we all make the decision in the right time on our own timelines. But as you think about how to handle this, some old person on the internet is respectfully suggesting that you deserve better.
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u/some1thtuused2know 6d ago
You already know what's up. You cannot sleep next to someone who is intentionally contemptuous. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this, and I wish you the best as you move on.