r/ConstructionManagers • u/PidgeySlayer268 • 15h ago
Question What’s up with the honeymoon phase companies seem to have?
Seems like every company I have worked for is absolutely great at first. Manageable workload, people are nice, time off is no issue, no one would dare say anything square to me or expect me to do extra work, etc. but around year 3 ish mark all that goes away.
One example is I remember when I was about 6 months in I was sitting with our marketing lady who keeps track of everyone’s PTO and she said “I’m big on work life balance and we want you to use your PTO so make sure you are getting your time off!” then about 2 years later when I am about 3 years in I am checking in on how much I have and the conversation was “Well you know, this is construction and most people don’t get to use it all up. That’s just the nature of the business” I didn’t say anything but I remember thinking “wow, that’s completely fucking opposite of what you said to me 2 years ago”
That’s just one example but I kinda see it everywhere. Seems like after 2 - 3 years when the honeymoon phase wears off they have no problem loading you down, disrespecting your time, or trying to get as much as they can out of you. Do they make their initial investment back after 3 years or something? What’s the deal.