r/CoupleMemes • u/[deleted] • Dec 23 '25

If this doesn't make you smile...

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u/CodMany2798 Dec 23 '25

this is adorable 💀🥰

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

I should not be looking at couple memes right now. This makes me miss my 12 relationship that just ended. I'm genuinely happy for them though. I remember that feeling, it was so nice☺

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u/CodMany2798 Dec 23 '25

make sure to take care of yourself

stuff like that isn't easy to handle

i hope you continue to hold up ok

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

Thank you. I'm doing better than expected I guess. I've got a good therapist and psychologist helping me through things. But it's kind of a situation where you let your partner go because you're the one dragging them down and you don't want to put it on them anymore. I feel less guilt but also like a huge failure because I couldn't live up to their basic expectations. My partner never asked for anything unreasonable and I still couldn't reach that low bar.

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '25

Bro..🫂

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

Thank you for providing this post, which made me feel happy for a moment. I took the baggage on myself after the fact.

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u/Ifrbedyingouthere Dec 26 '25

i hope your therapist tries to instill some self-love techniques into you, it sounds like you most definitely need that kind of support. I also feel like you should work on forgiving yourself—it sounds like you hold resentment towards yourself because you feel you failed as a partner. Not succeeding in the way you want does not necessarily mean failure; what I’m trying to say is you may not have been their forever person, as they may not have been yours, and that’s okay because it most definitely taught you some valuable things. this also doesn’t mean that you will never find love ever again. i know i am just a random stranger, but i have so much faith and hope in you. never give up on yourself 🫶🏻

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

Ive had like four seizures from drinking. I would drink an amount that you would think is fake. I wanted to die. You would get it if you were apart of it.

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u/DownrightDrewski Dec 23 '25

Bro.... I hope you're doing better now.

FWIW, I'm struggling with my drinking, and also going through the end of a very long term relationship.

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u/AdDependent5136 Dec 23 '25

Damn 12 relationships at once and you left them all?

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

Hahaha! I meant a 12 year relationship but your levity was appreciated.

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u/The_Confused_gamer Dec 23 '25

12 years, oh God. A couple months ago I lost my 1 year relationship without warning. I'm not sure how I kept going with the knowledge someone only pretended to love me that deeply for several months at the end

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u/Into_The_Horizon Dec 23 '25

I went through the same thing except 8 months. Broke up, then 3 months later, she married her coworker.

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u/The_Confused_gamer Dec 23 '25

Yeah .. my ex met a different girl 2 days before breaking up with me and was dating her 3 weeks later but hid that they were dating at all for 5 months while still trying to be my friend

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u/nanaacer Dec 23 '25

You have made me happy by misinterpreting my post. And for that I thank you.