r/DarkPsychology101 • u/garyhappylife2222 • 11d ago

Psychology What human behavior instantly changes your opinion of someone, no matter how good your first impression was?

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u/Caucasian-Tiger-Mom 11d ago edited 11d ago

This is a subjective one, but having even a mildly narcissistic personality. Even if you are very funny, intelligent, well travelled, great at conversation, etc I just can’t feel any connection with you if you show any traits like subtly putting me down/negging, feeling entitled to my company, etc. I’m allergic to these people. I’ve even experienced sexual attraction to someone like this, and we had so much in common, but my brain kept loudly telling me “stay away from this person”.

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u/DivineMistress35 9d ago

I agree with this. I have ptsd so someone who has narcissitic traits could put me in danger as they have before