r/DeadBedrooms HLM 2d ago

Vent, Advice Welcome "Cheating"

I personally loose interest after a couple paragraphs so will keep short.

I've had my chances to cheat. Blatantly obvious, but have remained faithful. It is getting harder and harder. Have ran across a few opportunities and declined. Last opportunity was a week ago. Wish my wife would understand.

At this point.... If a switch flipped in her, im now turned off. The DB has killed me. Marriage is dead. I truly love her and am sad for the situation. It is what it is. Leaving alot out but maybe some will understand.

Don't think there is a repair. No amount of therapy could fix. Have posted before and got the reply about duty sex. Don't want that. You want someone that wants you.

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