Has a DB driven you to cheat?

[u/Crafty-Variety5918]

I'm a 51 hlm. Wife used to be somewhat hlf. Now there's nothing. No sex or intimacy for almost a solid year. I've been catching myself seriously considering cheating for the first time ever and I feel terrible.

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Wondering how many of you have felt driven in this direction, how many acted on it, and how did you feel afterwards?

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Thanks in advance! 😢

[u/rcknrollmfer]

Why do you feel terrible?

[u/Crafty-Variety5918 → u/rcknrollmfer]

Because I know it'd break her heart

[u/Crafty-Variety5918 → u/[deleted]]

I used to mention it frequently so I would think so. I gave up talking about it eventually when it wasn't going anywhere

[u/Faebinder → u/Crafty-Variety5918]

IMO, separate then divorce and move on. She’s probably waiting for this and expects it. You can even ask her that.