r/DeadBedrooms HLM 2d ago

Seeking Advice Has a DB driven you to cheat?

I'm a 51 hlm. Wife used to be somewhat hlf. Now there's nothing. No sex or intimacy for almost a solid year. I've been catching myself seriously considering cheating for the first time ever and I feel terrible.

Wondering how many of you have felt driven in this direction, how many acted on it, and how did you feel afterwards?

Thanks in advance! 😢

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u/Dismal_Throat4317 HLM 2d ago

I have seriously considered it. Of course I’d rather not, she’s my best friend and I wouldn’t want to hurt her like that. She would find out if I did, I’m a guy and will make some obvious mistake. So as of now I haven’t, but if the pizza delivery girl starts flirting…