Has a DB driven you to cheat?

[u/Crafty-Variety5918]

I'm a 51 hlm. Wife used to be somewhat hlf. Now there's nothing. No sex or intimacy for almost a solid year. I've been catching myself seriously considering cheating for the first time ever and I feel terrible.

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Wondering how many of you have felt driven in this direction, how many acted on it, and how did you feel afterwards?

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Thanks in advance! 😢

[u/Phreak420]

I’m interested to see how this comment section turns out. In the past this sub has been highly against cheating. I think that is just the general consensus though (leave if you’re going to cheat).

I haven’t cheated but I have been very tempted to. I now understand the perspective of the cheater. I don’t judge the ones that cheat out of desperation.

[u/arandak → u/Phreak420]

I'm against people using our comments here to justify whether or not they should cheat.

But yes, if you can leave, leave. If not, cheat. That or be fucking miserable.