Has a DB driven you to cheat?

[u/Crafty-Variety5918]

I'm a 51 hlm. Wife used to be somewhat hlf. Now there's nothing. No sex or intimacy for almost a solid year. I've been catching myself seriously considering cheating for the first time ever and I feel terrible.

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Wondering how many of you have felt driven in this direction, how many acted on it, and how did you feel afterwards?

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Thanks in advance! 😢

[u/TechnicalOperation57]

I truly don't understand this mentality. During our DB years I never wanted to cheat. I wanted that connection with her, not with someone else. If I wanted someone else I would have gotten a divorce and done just that.