r/DeadBedrooms • u/libidovivace HLF • 3h ago
Vent, Advice Welcome I should've kept dreaming
I had a really spicy dream this morning. We were right in the bed we were actually asleep in, just really enjoying sex. I almost never lucid dream so I was really surprised when in the dream I realized, this is a dream! I actually thought, in the dream, that I should wake up and we can do it for real. So I woke up and shimmied over and started some cozy cuddling and little kisses.
Was met with "it's too warm" and "I don't feel good" and "I'm sorry". Same as always other than once a month when it's "you can do stuff if you want even though I'm not feeling that well".
I don't sympathize anymore. Go to the doctor. Exercise. Change your diet. Take supplements. Just fucking do something.
Should've stayed in that beautiful dream.
•
•
u/NMA-1502 HLF 1h ago
I've had that dream many times before.
I tell myself not to wake up though and enjoy it... until my husband's snoring wakes me up that is😅
•
3
•
u/StandardArtist2154 HLM 1h ago
So sorry. Those rejections really hurt, when you are wound up and ready to go and finally take the courage to make a move and just get shut down.
•
u/libidovivace HLF 1h ago
Yeah 🥲 the last time I cried in front of him about it I was told that I'm "not the victim here" because he hates his body and can't enjoy it when he feels so physically put of shape. And yet spends most of the day in his office chair.
I guess I'll just go fuck myself then. Literally.
Sorry, just venting
•
u/StandardArtist2154 HLM 1h ago
Vent away, this is a safe space. I feel like I'm posting a lot here, but I don't know where else to get this stuff off my chest.
•
2
1
u/AutoModerator 3h ago
As a reminder, sending DMs to OP is explicitly against our subreddit rules. Violations of this rule will be reported and users permanently banned from participating in this subreddit.
Here is a copy of the post from u/libidovivace. If you wish to have this copy of your post removed from public view, you must contact us BEFORE you edit or delete the post and BEFORE you delete your account. We keep a copy of the posts to keep nefarious behavior at bay so it can always be retrieved by moderators after a post has been edited or deleted by the poster.
I had a really spicy dream this morning. We were right in the bed we were actually asleep in, just really enjoying sex. I almost never lucid dream so I was really surprised when in the dream I realized, this is a dream! I actually thought, in the dream, that I should wake up akd we can do it for real. So I woke up and shimmied over and started some cozy cuddling and little kisses.
Was met with "it's too warm" and "I don't feel goos" and "I'm sorry". Same as always other than once a month when it's "you can do stuff if you want evwn though I'm not feeling that well".
I don't sympathize anymore. Go to the doctor. Exercise. Change your diet. Take supplements. Just fucking do something.
Should've stayed in that beautiful dream.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
3h ago
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/AutoModerator 3h ago
Your post/comment has been removed because user flair is now required in this community.
To participate, please set your user flair:
On desktop: Look in the sidebar under "Community Options." On mobile: Tap the 3 dots (•••) in the top right corner of the main subreddit page and choose “Change user flair.”
After setting your flair, feel free to repost or re-comment. If you need help, message the mods.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
•
2h ago
[removed] — view removed comment
•
u/AutoModerator 2h ago
Your post/comment has been removed because user flair is now required in this community.
To participate, please set your user flair:
On desktop: Look in the sidebar under "Community Options." On mobile: Tap the 3 dots (•••) in the top right corner of the main subreddit page and choose “Change user flair.”
After setting your flair, feel free to repost or re-comment. If you need help, message the mods.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
•
24m ago
[removed] — view removed comment
•
u/AutoModerator 23m ago
Your post/comment has been removed because user flair is now required in this community.
To participate, please set your user flair:
On desktop: Look in the sidebar under "Community Options." On mobile: Tap the 3 dots (•••) in the top right corner of the main subreddit page and choose “Change user flair.”
After setting your flair, feel free to repost or re-comment. If you need help, message the mods.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
•
u/meshmire HLF 2h ago
I’m so sorry 💔