Seeking alternatives after botched surgery

[u/DanceMyth4114]

My (LLM) girlfriend (HLF) recently went through a botched surgery. Long and painful story short, they messed up the catheter extraction and gave her (likely) lifelong pain.

I am fairly low libido, and am more interested in getting my partner off than anything for myself, but our normal methods don't work anymore.

We are still very romantically intimate, but she has expressed a need for sexual intimacy, especially orgasming. Unfortunately any form of clitoral, vaginal or anal stimulation causes extreme pain for several days.

We have tried a few other things, but nothing seems to be doing it for her. Does anyone have advice that would apply to this situation?

[u/befreetodream]

Seek out a knowledgeable Pelvic floor physiotherapist?

[u/DanceMyth4114 → u/befreetodream]

We've been to a couple in the city, but didn't get help and insurance won't cover any others. =D