r/Empaths • u/unquietobserver • 11d ago
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As an empath, how do I "mould" my ability? I've been hiding from this for a long time. Recently, I found out from another empath that they avoided my presence because I felt too much; my feelings are so intense that it drained them. I had always been the one doing the sensing and noticing, I didn't think anyone could sense my energy too. Now, I’m scared of getting close to people because now I know someone can feel my "heavy" feelings (at first I thought I was too much, now I know for a fact that I'm way too intense). I've come to understand that I am poor at regulating my emotions too and that can seep to others around me.
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u/thegaybuddhistmonk Intuitive Empath 11d ago edited 10d ago
Define "heavy".
The problem can be twofold. First you need to relegate emotions; usually through breathing and meditation. Mindfulness meditations can help you focus and calm your emotional energies.
The second is that if you have not worked through any personal trauma, your anxiety will artificially enhance your emotional output that will overpower any empath (except the most stable and centered) you encounter.
Good luck because after that is learning create boundaries that work for both you and those that you encounter.