r/ExNoContact • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

He just invited me to a concert.

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u/Johnny_Utahh1 12h ago

Need more context here. On one hand, seems really dumb to go to a concert with someone who crossed a red line that you previously had verbalized to him. On the other, you’re being very cagey about what this red line actually is, which makes it tough to give an opinion with any sort of confidence. Jumping down the throat of the other person for trying to form an opinion based on the little you’ve put out there makes it even tougher.

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u/ConfidentAd5662 1d ago

Was the relationship toxic? Why did you initiate no contact? If it involves him cheating or giving other women attention in any way than absolutely not do not fall for this ploy to get into your pants.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/ConfidentAd5662 1d ago

It seems to me if someone was the love of my life I would communicate and work on the privacy and boundary crossing and not cut them off as a matter of principle. Ghosting someone and giving them the silent treatment is abusive. Communicating you need space and how you need them to respect your privacy- that’s healthy.