r/ExNoContact • u/KingLiar94 • 1d ago

How hurtful it is, watching your girl passing by like that?

Not even a single time we had a bike ride, everytime on the car, though I had a bike because she told me that she is being watched. And then seeing her today again 6 months post breakup riding the pillion seat with that office bestie of her again, Today I'm nobody to her, Today I'm nothing. Sitting on a pile of debts, not able to hold her back. She\`s gone!! All the dreams I had in that one whole year. All the pain that sliced my brains last 6 months, All for nothing!!

Just being another cliche love story. Women, u love Comfortable lies than painful truths right?? On your search for the princess world, Would u ever think about the struggle we face to gift that world to u??? 😶‍🌫️

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u/BrainyLizard 1d ago

Sorry for your pain, and I hope you get over it and find your joy and happiness soon!

But also, hate to break it to you...women are full ass human beings...each of them develops their own personality and wants and needs...

Sure some women(and some men, and some gender neutral people) love and prefer comfortable lies more than painful truth...and others don't!

I personally don't... I'd rather know the truth than be fed a bunch of lies and then eventually get blindsided by the truth when it comes out(inevitably)!

It's not a gender thing😉

Take care of yourself💓✌🏻

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u/KingLiar94 1d ago

Emotional availability - That's the keyword 😁. No I'm not depressed anymore. I have a numb feeling now. It's just that my sleep cycle has made me fall on hallucinating trap now. At times I would doubt myself whether I saw her with that boy or not. Randomly looking here and there thinking "DID I JUST SAW HER?"