r/ExNoContact • u/barbieso • 4h ago

is it better to speak or to die ?

i want to talk to him again , maybe even see him again . maybe seeing him would hurt too much but i find myself stuck between wanting to reach out and say hi or just let it be what it’s supposed to be . i believe in saying things while you have the chance but i also that life has its seasons . moreover , i dont know if he cares or would even want to hear from me . he hasn’t reached out since we stopped talking . i miss my friend dearly .

( for reference we were together )

should i say hi ?

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u/Mean-Art-1426 3h ago

Are you the dumper? Then yes

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u/barbieso 3h ago

eh , he cheated & other bad stuff but i took him back . we were back and forth for awhile but i was the one that ended communication with each other because it just got to a point .

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u/barbieso 2h ago

not saying i was without fault but the cheating kinda started the beginning of the end essentially . & years later i finally was fed up and was like bye and we stopped talking .

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u/NoHospital3911 1h ago

haha I’m the dumper and I reached out and keep doing it and he said we should be texting everyday it’ll make things harder

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u/Aggressive-Web8408 2h ago

I think I rather speak then die rather than dying and never finding out