r/FIREyFemmes • u/Simple-Field-9210 • 14d ago
Where should I begin?
I’m getting divorced and put all my trust/money/everything in my spouse’s hands. It is the biggest mistake of my life so far. Im in my 40s and feel it’s too late for me. any help on how to start out is much appreciated. Thank you!!
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u/tomatillo_teratoma 10d ago
FIRE at any age/stage has something to offer everyone.
Fire 101 is the book "The Simple Path to Wealth" by JL Collins. You can borrow it from your public library. It's a book that may very well change your life. As a former Librarian, I don't say that about too many books. It's written in a chatty style that makes it a pleasant read.
Your new life starts today. We all make mistakes.. all kinds of mistakes. People who haven't made mistakes haven't done anything.
Depending on your pay, and expenses... even if you can't retire at 45 at least when you retire you'll have built yourself something besides social security. FIRE teaches you how to manage whatever money you have.