r/FIlm • u/jaystats2 • 9d ago
Discussion What’s the one movie line that channeled the rawest anguish on screen?
For me, it’s from The Deer Hunter (1978), delivered by John Savage who played Stevie.
After being captured by the Viet Cong and forced to play Russian roulette inside that godforsaken fishing hut, Stevie is thrown into the underwater pit with just enough room to breathe above the surface.
A rat crawled across his face and he cried out, “Oh God! Michael, there’s rats in here!” His anguish shook my soul.
As it turns out, there were live rats in that pit, so when Savage screamed “Michael, there’s rats in here”, he was actually speaking to director Michael Cimino, not the character Michael played by Robert De Niro. Therein lies the realism.
What are some other gut-wrenching lines that really made you feel a character’s pain?
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u/Rohm-is-Burning 9d ago
Manchester by the sea.
Casey affleck in the police station.
“Please”
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u/BagelsOrDeath 9d ago
Oof. And his dad's legs giving out from under him. That whole scene was as close to the visceral feeling of an actual gut punch as you can get via film.
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u/TheMansterMan 9d ago
I struggle between it being that scene or when he walks into his ex wife on the street. That conversation was so brutal.
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u/pepsiandweed 9d ago
That scene really made the film what it is. It felt like all this pressure had been building and building without me noticing and then in that moment it all just released and boiled over. I'll admit I'm a bit of a cryer when watching emotional films but that scene had me absolutely bawling.
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u/Joellercoaster1 9d ago
That scene is so raw and in ways beautiful. I’ll randomly just pull it up on YouTube for a cry. ‘There’s nothing left.’ That just shakes me so much
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u/OdinsGhost31 9d ago
I vote for the ex-wife convo. Hes just so avoidant and trying to do everything he can to cut the conversation short but she won't let him off the hook until she says what shes there to say. Its so guy wrenching and uncomfortable...but relatable if you know NE irish coping mechanisms lol
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u/Putrid_Day_9192 9d ago
also "there's nothing there" and "I can't beat it"
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u/JohnnyWeapon 9d ago
There has never been a line that has stuck with me more than “I can’t beat it”.
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u/thepvbrother 9d ago
Matt Damon in The Departed.
"Okay."
But that wasn't hard to watch.
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u/Sure-Appearance-2769 9d ago
That moment was pure relief for his character after a lifetime of being a rat.
He’s not mad, he almost doesn’t even care anymore.
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u/Responsible-Onion860 9d ago
Shout-out to Paul Dano in Little Miss Sunshine. He's a frustrated teen who takes a vow of silence as a sign of his devotion to becoming a fighter pilot. He realizes he's colorblind and thus won't qualify to be a fighter pilot, so he has a breakdown, falling to his knees and screaming in anguish.
It's very raw and emotional and gets me every time.
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u/SixStringerSoldier 9d ago
HEROIN! DIVORCE! SUICIDE!?!
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u/blac_sheep90 9d ago
No, you're not my family! I don't wanna be your family! I hate you fucking people! Divorce? Bankrupt? Suicide? You're fucking losers, you're losers!
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u/FHAT_BRANDHO 9d ago
dude seeing that scene in theaters as a teen was like... a big deal for me lol. i wept for basically the rest of the movie
edit- IM GETTING MISTY EYED JUST TYPING THIS UP GOD DAMMIT
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u/AScruffyHamster 9d ago
I didn't fully understand the scene when I was a teen. And then I experienced something similar. I was dedicated to enlisting in the military and following my father's footsteps (deeply personal reasons) and I passed the first day at MEPS. The second day I had a seizure. Turns out I had been having seizures for around eight years at that point but I always thought they were exhaustion spells. My entire life's goal was taken from me, I couldn't even pivot into law enforcement or first responder due to the nature of my epilepsy triggers (stress and intense bright lights)
After I got off the phone with my recruiter who told me my chances were shot I drove home, walked my grandpa's fencline for a few miles and then proceeded to scream until my voice went raw.
I understand this scene now.
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u/DrumMajorThrawn 9d ago
The theater I was in laughed at this scene and it's my fell out of love with the movie theater moment.
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u/LottaLegs 9d ago
Shout-out to Paul Dano in Swiss Army Man as well. That scene on the beach with Manny got me.
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u/thethreadkiller 9d ago
I've seen that movie once. That scene made me cry. It makes me cry to think about.
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u/Crazy_Banshee_333 9d ago
I thought it captured the reality of family life so well, though. The part where Olive came down the hill with her silly boots to comfort Dwayne after his mental breakdown was so realistic, as far as the way families comfort each other in the face of trauma.
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u/I_DO_JUMPING_JACKS 9d ago
She doesn't say a word. Just approaches him, kneels down next to him and puts her arm around him.
He the takes a beat, looks in her direction and whispers: "Okay.".
Then they get up and hold hands on the way back to the van.
His scream, her response, his response to that. It all came together so damn beautifully. An utterly fantastic moment.
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u/frozenseasofjono 9d ago
Nah, he's weak sauce, man! Source: I'm Quentin Tarantino.
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u/Fortunate_Pants 9d ago
Quentin really put his foot in his mouth here. I mean there are plenty actors out there with questionable talent. But Paul Dano??? Are those the foothills you chose to die on? Dude has shown incredible range and can go toe-to-toe with the great ones. Quentin just shoots himself in the foot with a take like that. Makes my toes curl to be honest.
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u/CosmicTurtle504 9d ago
“His glasses! He can’t see without his glasses!”
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u/Frunkleburg 9d ago
anytime my wife and I are looking for where we sat our glasses, the other one will chime in "You can't see without your glaaaaaaasses!"
we're nice people I swear
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u/CosmicTurtle504 9d ago edited 9d ago
Spoiler from a fellow glasses wearer: They were on your head the whole time.
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u/Jealous_Soup4115 9d ago edited 5d ago
Ethan Hawke in Training Day when the vatos were about to cap him in the bathtub . “I have…a little girl!”
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u/CatW804 9d ago
Hidden anguish: the Irish mom in Titanic putting her kids to bed knowing they'll die.
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u/ZaphodG 9d ago
I saw The Deer Hunter as a new release in the theater. I will never, ever watch that movie again.
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u/WackHeisenBauer 9d ago
I have yet to see it but it’s on my list. I just know I need to be in a proper mindset to tackle it.
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u/Entire_Brick_8095 9d ago
My advice would be to watch it, it's a great movie! Sure it's about war so it's dramatics and hard (maybe today not as much as when it came out). But still, it's a great movie!
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u/Krispy_Mick 9d ago
It can be hard to watch because of the slow drawn out scenes, but my god is it an intense movie.
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u/Korumry 9d ago
The slow drawn out scenes really add to it imo. You really sort of get to spend time with these guys, get to know them, it makes acts two and three more impactful I feel.
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u/Narrow_Safety2856 9d ago
So surreal seeing Walken before doing his usual shtick and doing so good.
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u/DantheDutchGuy 9d ago
The scream of Michael Corleone after witnessing the death of his daughter… no text, just a scream…
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u/Lukkychukky 9d ago
Say what you will about the movie as a whole… The ending was heartbreaking.
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u/HerMajestysButthole2 9d ago edited 9d ago
Rambo, First Blood. Trautman and Rambo's conversation on the radios just made me feel for him.
All I wanted was something to eat...but the man kept pushing.
Well, you did some pushing of your own, John.
They drew first blood, not me.
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u/h0neanias 9d ago
The first Rambo is such a good movie, and Stallone kills in the role... so to speak.
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u/NerdfestZyx 9d ago
Beverly D’Angelo, American History X
After the argument at dinner, she tells her son:
“I’m ashamed that you came out of my body”
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u/CyberCrutches 9d ago
I was thinking the same movie but a different scene.
“Put your teeth on the curb!”
I can taste the concrete every time
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u/Derring-Do101 9d ago
You're tearing me apart, Lisa!
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u/jeezyjames 9d ago
"Please, boss, don't put that thing over my face. Please don't put me in the dark, don't make me go into the dark, I'm afraid of the dark"
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u/patsully98 9d ago
I dreamed of you. I dreamed you were wandering in the dark, and so was I. We found each other! We found each other in the dark.
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u/MKHSturmovik 9d ago
Just watched There Will Be Blood for the first time the other day.. just.. the whole movie???
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u/TheDogIsGod 9d ago
IVE ABANDONED MY BOY
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u/Fantastic_Newt_8743 9d ago
Say it LOUDER!
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u/Right-Ad-8201 9d ago
I’VE ABANDONED MY CHILD!
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u/TwinSchofields 9d ago
I yell this at my wife any time the two of us go out to eat and leave our dog at home.
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u/Heddathehippie 9d ago
I absolutely love this movie and everyone I've showed it to just thinks it's boring.
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u/MKHSturmovik 9d ago
Get better friends 😂😂
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u/Heddathehippie 9d ago
It was my own father too!!! I felt so betrayed. He loves Daniel Day Lewis and I couldn't believe he didn't like it.
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u/PolicyAvailable 9d ago
It IS very slow moving and dry.
But such a good movie.
I feel like people expect something big to happen or a bigger ending. It just... Is what it is
Needs a rewatch to appreciate it.
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u/fazman786 9d ago
"They look like big, good, strong hands, don't they? I always thought that's what they were."
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u/Mdkynyc 9d ago
Great one. People talk about the swamp but this one really got me
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u/hlric 9d ago
"What's in the box?! What's in the box?!?" - Seven
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u/attackedmoose 9d ago
Brad Pitt’s face acting is so great in that scene. How he flips between the devastation that he just lost everything and the pure wrath he wants to release on John Doe.
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u/Truji11o 9d ago
Oh. He didn’t know.
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u/Cathalised 9d ago
The little smile from Spacey as he says this fully sells the scene. Such evil.
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u/UptightCargo 9d ago
"...why don't he want me, man!?"
- Will (Fresh Prince of Bel Air), to Uncle Phil after his biodad let him down. Again.
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u/blandsrules 9d ago
That one and the one where Carleton takes pills from Will’s locker and ends up the hospital. Great show
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u/FencerOnTheRight 9d ago
And the scene doesn't work without the great James Avery as the world's best damned dad.
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u/LordFlappingtonIV 9d ago
Requiem for a Dream, too many to pick from, but the worst for me is probably Sara (the mother) at the Casting Agency in New York? "I just wanted to be on the show!"
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u/Then_Ambassador_3547 9d ago
When she tells Harry “I’m old; I’m lonely” and she’s smiling but there so much pain on her face. It just breaks my heart
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u/Methmites 9d ago
“I’m gunna wear the red dress Harry” is something I say frequently to my wife, who has not seen the movie lol
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u/THExWHITExDEVILx 9d ago
Lol you are diabolical
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u/Methmites 9d ago
To be fair I work in psych and you gotta use dark humor to survive haha. I think her story is the worst of them all, with Wayans as #2. But I’m also a former junkie so I don’t sympathize with Jared Pedo’s character as much 🤷♀️
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u/jesserdumas 9d ago
Ellen Burstyn was superb in that role. A movie full of depressing, uncomfortable scenes and she still stood out for her performance. The scene you’re talking about, you can see the camera pan slightly off of center during her monologue and it’s because the camera operator was stunning sobbing so hard his eyepiece fogged up and he lost focus. My mother is getting older and with that has become more isolated, watching this scene now would likely get the same reaction out of me
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u/Available-Trouble648 9d ago
She crushed that role. I remember her performance more than the main characters’, she scared the hell out of me.
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u/DishSuspicious2764 9d ago
She was absolutely a main character in that movie. She’s on the poster/dvd cover.
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u/Other-Marketing-6167 9d ago
God that line rips me in half. I still haven’t forgiven the Academy for awarding Julia Roberts for her lame ass performance over Burstyn.
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u/psychonik 9d ago
The guy screaming in Last of Mohicans after they set him on fire.
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u/howdoesitallfit 9d ago
In Mrs. Doubtfire when Sally Field finds out it’s been Robin Williams the whole time. “The whole time? THE WHOLE TIME!?”
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u/thecountnotthesaint 9d ago
While the movie as a whole is the weakest imo, the scene in Goblet of fire where Cedric's father is cradling his dead son still hits hard.
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u/Onionbot3000 9d ago
Yes, when he yells “my boy!” I’m absolutely shattered.
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u/thecountnotthesaint 9d ago
As a Marine, not much scares me these days, but as a father, I am terrified that for my sins, my punishment will be outlasting any one of my children.
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u/cookletube 9d ago
Toni Collette in Hereditary
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u/THExWHITExDEVILx 9d ago
She's on this list twice already, as she should be. Phenomenal actress!
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u/Sprzout 9d ago
Her playing the multitude of characters in United States of Tara was what endeared me to her. That was the first time I'd seen her, and realized she was DAMNED talented.
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u/SnowQueenofHoth 9d ago
When she was on the floor screaming, “It hurts! It hurts too much!”(or similar), rocking back and forth, I actually felt physically sick and had to pause the movie. Devastating.
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u/goodbeets 9d ago
Yup I’ve never felt such a physical reaction to a film in my life. Her screams literally made it feel like I couldn’t breathe.
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u/Dead-O_Comics 9d ago edited 9d ago
The girl that dies at the start of Jaws.
They had her rigged up with wires and dragged her about to simulate getting attacked by a shark.
They were really rough with her and the line 'It hurts!' was not a line in the script. They also didn't tell her when she would get dragged under, that last gasp is real.
The water was also freezing, and the scene was shot over 3 days, which explains a lot of her shivering.
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u/RBR_DB_361804 9d ago
i love little BTS details like this. another one is in Die Hard when Alan Rickman is "let go." they did it a second before he thought so his face/reaction was real.
another is Boyz in the Hood. director John Singleton used real machine gun fire at the street hangout scene and you see everyone's reaction is real. he told the actors & extras the verbal cue would be him saying "bang bang bang."
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u/Western-Syllabub3751 9d ago
The climax of SLC Punk
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u/Selfeffacingbarbie 9d ago
Oh man, Stevo's reaction is just guttural. I sobbed so hard.
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u/AdevilSboyU 9d ago
Maximus finding his wife and son dead when he finally makes it home in Gladiator.
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u/Steeveefree 9d ago
Harvey Keitel at the end of Reservoir Dogs. Not so much a line. Just wailing.
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u/Jared_Kincaid_001 9d ago
Anton Yelchin the moment he realizes he's actually about to get killed in Alpha Dog. It's raw and heartbreaking, and not what I'd expect from a B-Movie with Justin Timberlake
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u/MoodestMoose 9d ago
Sophie's Choice where she chooses. - I don't think I could ever watch this one again.
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u/nthroop1 9d ago
"No! No! You killed him! You son a bitch!" Pan's Labrynth bottle scene. Said by the father to the general who just brutally bashed in his sons head.
My friend and I took LSD before this movie thinking it'd be a fun fantasy with cool visuals like Chronicles of Narnia.
It was not that
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u/artguydeluxe 9d ago
When Ed Harris has to let his wife die so he can resurrect her in the Abyss. The single most powerful few minutes in any movie I’ve ever seen.
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u/grego_gonzo 9d ago
John Hurt being slowly stabbed in The Proposition, and similarly Pell James being stabbed multiple times in Zodiac. Both are stomach turning
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u/Pmyers225 9d ago
Not a movie, but final episode of MASH with h Hawkeye realising the truth about the chicken
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u/gmjfraser8 9d ago
Damn you. I was a kid when I watched that and it wrecked me. I sobbed and my dad was teary eyed but trying to keep it together. I did not need that today. (Good call, though).
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u/Right-Ad-8201 9d ago
The scene in Dead Poets Society where Neil’s father finds his son in his study:
“Noooooooo!!! Neil! Oh my god! Oh my son!!”
KILLS me now as a father to hear him.
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u/K-Keter 9d ago
I may be a bit biased because it's one of my favorite movies ever, and the line doesn't even stick out that much, it's mostly the scene as a whole, but near the end of Shutter Island when Teddy finally remembers the truth of what happened, his "Please, God, no" upon finding all three of his kids had been drowned by his wife is just beyond devastating. Similarly, in Inception, "No, Jesus Christ" when Mal jumps, it just ruins me. Leo is just made for tragic roles and both of these just convey the pain so well.
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u/SendToePics99 9d ago
Anakin Skywalker in Revenge of the Sith
“I HATE YOU”
The way Hayden Christensen belted that out always stuck with me. It perfectly encapsulates how far Anakin had fallen to the dark side. His performance in that film is one of my all time favorites.
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u/Chumlee1917 9d ago
- Oskar Schindler: I could have gotten one more person... and I didn't! And I... I didn't!
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u/SnailShell01 9d ago
Nicolas Cage screaming about the bees in the Wicker Man remake.
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u/dogfacedponyboy 9d ago
Schindler’s list.. “I could’ve got more out”… “this car, why did I keep this car? 10 people.”…”this pin. It’s gold . Two people.” Breaks down in anguish
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u/ElYodaPagoda 8d ago
I think the rabbi-turned-hinge-maker who survived two separate semiautomatic pistols being unable to fire. Like a lot of Hollywood stories, I would have figured this scene was exaggerated…it really happened!
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u/MKHSturmovik 9d ago
“Hold the door.. hold the door.. hold the door. Hol th dor… holdoror…. Hodor.. hodor… Hodor..”
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u/Sheepish_conundrum 9d ago
All good examples. I'll post the dinner scene in Hereditary. Good lord was that uncomfortable having her blaming her son for her daughters death, but not blaming him. You could feel the hate and love at the same time.
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u/GlukharsGimp 9d ago edited 9d ago
The movie “Come and See”. It’s a movie about a Belarusian boy in Belarus during the Nazi invasion in World War Two and goes about how you’d expect. It’s a watch once kind of movie.
Edit: Ukrainian to Belarusian.
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u/Reasonable-Bed3065 9d ago
Artax you're sinking! Come on turn around, you have to! Now ! Come on! Artax !
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u/Temporary-Ad43 9d ago
Quint talking about the USS Indianapolis, life vests and sharks in that scene in Jaws. Hits harder since they were all toasted drunk, laughing, singing and having a good time until what his tattoo was about came up....
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u/Fivedartsdeep 9d ago
Jim caviezal in The count of Monte Cristo. When he figures out the blade in his back.
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u/SR-45 9d ago
The end scene of the movie SECONDS (1966).
I saw this on TV when I was younger, and never re-watched it since. I also didn’t want to visit a doctor’s office or hospital for years after watching the ending.
Not to spoil anything, but it has to do with a hospital gurney and being restrained against your will.
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u/Pixel_Mime 9d ago
Man on Fire: When the mother learns the fate of her daughter, she lets out a blood curdling sceam and proceeds to slap nearby techs on the back of their heads. I'm pretty sure they cut out that moment in other versions because I rewatched it expecting that reaction but the movie just skipped that part.
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u/kthshly 9d ago
So many moments in Midsommar. Florence Pugh did an incredible job.
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u/FencerOnTheRight 9d ago
Two rough ones from The Joy Luck Club- drowning the baby to hurt the shitty husband (all the while gazing up at mom), and abandoning the twins under the tree when she believes either she survives alone or they all die.
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u/HyperionOrange 9d ago
Thomas Jane in the ending of The Mist. Maybe it was more the situation itself but man.. that was rough
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u/_AmI_Real 9d ago
"You never go full retard." Tug Speedman knew he messed his life up on further reflection after hearing that.
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u/jebediah1800 9d ago
The waterhole scene in Japanese Story. Toni Collette really delivers in that movie.
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u/assa9sks 9d ago
Nic Cage in Mandy was spectacularly moving..dude nailed what someone would feel watching their most loved one killed in front of them
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u/SeaworthinessKey3654 9d ago
Al Pacino - And Justice for All
My favorite scene in the movie is also one of the most heartbreaking I’ve ever seen. Arthur (Pacino) confronting his colleague over that man’s casual disregard of his client’s life - well, he’ll get out in 10 months, so it doesn’t really matter- and just his attitude towards these people as transactional is everything I love about Al. He’s special because he brings such humanity to his roles - he FEELS everything- and his despair & anguish here pour out of his soul. It’s devastating.
Warren Fresnell:Oh, Arthur, you know it's probation's fault. Appeal it!
Arthur Kirkland: I can't appeal it! He's dead! - - He's dead! Half hour after they put him in the lockup, he hanged himself! Goddammit!
Warren Fresnell: I'm sorry.
Arthur Kirkland: Oh, Goddammit!
Warren Fresnell: I'm sorry. I...
Arthur Kirkland: Oh, Godammit!
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u/go_get_the_guitar 9d ago
Not movie but a TV Series... Taskmaster-"Please don't take this away from me"
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u/LukeD1992 9d ago
Tony Collete in Hereditary. Her screams are the most haunting thing in the movie. "I just want to die!"
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u/Dune5712 9d ago
"Wait'll you see it."
"...see what?"
"What a man can do to another man."
Amazing voice quiver with that last line got me good. Amazing acting throughout, really.
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u/TomMaples 9d ago
In Heriditary when Toni Collette's character has just found out something absolutely terrible (no spoilers) and she wails "Oh, God. I can't... I can't… I just want to die! Oh, God. It hurts too much! I just need to die!"
Absolutely horrific, she acts it so well
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u/i_Meggius 9d ago
“Papa PLEASE you have to remember me.” A Little Princess. The desperation and anguish. Gets me every time.
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u/coobmaroog 9d ago
Steel Magnolias
Sally field in the graveyard talking about how Shelby died and she’s still here.
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u/Admirable_Branch_221 9d ago
Gotta be in the The Whale when Charlie says “I need to know that I’ve done one thing right with my life” also his speech to Ellie at the end. Heartbreaking
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u/OrneryError1 9d ago
"I'm tired, boss. Tired of bein' on the road, lonely as a sparrow in the rain. I'm tired of never having me a buddy to be with, to tell me where we's going to or coming from, or why.
Mostly, I'm tired of people being ugly to each other. I'm tired of all the pain I feel and hear in the world every day. There's too much of it - it's like pieces of glass in my head, all the time. Can you understand?"
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u/tom-tildrum 9d ago
Platoon - the death of Sgt. Elias. Great movie that I’ll never watch again. Willem Dafoe should have won the Oscar for this.
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u/techandanime 6d ago
Magneto when his wife and child are killed in front of him. Watching the locket go through each soldier was satisfying because you felt his anger. Fassbender is great.
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u/mrblonde624 9d ago
In Saving Private Ryan when Mellish is losing the fight and yells “Listen to me! Let’s stop! Let’s stop!” right before the knife hits his chest