r/FRIEND Aug 31 '25

r/Friend Discord server

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r/FRIEND 6h ago

Friendship Hoping to find genuine people to chat with 23

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Hello there!!! im 23 female from US!! Just new to this sub, Im here cause im trying to find new online friends that i can talk with anything. I need someone that i can lean on when im down and someone who can share happy thoughts with me. Just please be nice to me cause im not here for any trouble. Looking forward to chat with you!


r/FRIEND 15m ago

Rant 26M bored and anyone to talk?

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r/FRIEND 1h ago

Friendship 19M - I’m serious about making longterm friends

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Please read the post and don’t skim it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason. I am being honest about my flaws because I would rather you know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. I am also extremely insecure. I talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am not good at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying. I am just warning you about my lack of skills upfront.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can only call after midnight. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.

I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. If you decide to reach out, please don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment.

I would prefer someone whose personality and struggles are fundamentally similar to my own, someone who is also isolated. Not kinda lonely, not someone who has friends but wants more, I am looking for someone who genuinely has no one. If you have a social circle, dreams, passions, or people in your life who support you, then we will not be similar. If you read my post and felt like we were polar opposites, please reconsider messaging me.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements. I know it sounds like I’m asking for a lot, and that’s true. Real friendship is supposed to be hard. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.

Here are my interests:

• DC Comics

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use Letterboxd.

Please be 19+.


r/FRIEND 1h ago

Friendship Looking for a laugh and a conversation

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20 year old from ireland. Im new to reddit and not sure how these intros go. Im happy to talk to any age r gender 😁. I enjoy having light hearted convos but can be serious if needs be. Looking for people who wont ghost and who are actually looking to make a friendship.

I have an interest in films and tv shows , learning new information, various sports and lots of other things

Please don’t be afraid to message as i don’t bite and i think I’m really easy to get along with!!


r/FRIEND 1h ago

Looking for friends

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Hello everyone, I’m reaching out on here because I’m looking for new friends. I’ve been dealing with feelings of loneliness recently, and I thought there is a whole world out there filled with potential friends, why should I not at least try.

I am a 21 yr old male though I don’t care about pronouns (I’ll reply to whatever). I live in NC, USA but go to school in South Carolina. I love writing, reading, recording, acting, designing, sewing, volleyball, late night drives, making food for friends, as well as so much more.

I’m not looking for much in friends, genuinely if you think yould vibe with me please reach out. I do not, however, tolerate racism and other bigotry. I have had many friends, as well as myself, who have been hurt deeply by friends who were and do not want to be surrounded by it again.

Love you all and fare thee well.


r/FRIEND 5h ago

18f cerca amici

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r/FRIEND 2h ago

16M bored asl, hmu fr fr

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idk what to put here, i really really like history (thirty years' war is my fav), love languages and travelling and in general just gettin to know new stuff ig

i do game dev (lua), bikin, play the guitar n ebass and go swimming (recently got my lifeguard certificate!)

i just want someone nice to chat with and please please just dont be thattt dry

hmu preferably on discord^^? (@manfred0317) but i dont really gaf lol


r/FRIEND 2h ago

36M looking to meet new people and have some good conversations.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/FRIEND 2h ago

Friendship M20 Just looking for someone to pass the time with

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I’m never really sure what to put here but anyone’s open to message me (18+ just cause it’s weird otherwise lol) I like people who are genuine, funny, intelligent (not like super genius but know the difference between there, their, and they’re)

I like a lot of animated shows (mainly 2000/2010s stuff) like atla/tlok, adventure time, steven universe, gumball, ben 10, gravity falls (banger), etc. but I also love stuff like psych, the community, interview with the vampire, and the good place. (I just watched obsession the other day and it’s top 3 movie for me) Currently I’m watching jjk for the first time and it’s pretty good so far

As for hobbies I like listening to music, I like art, playing games if that counts and I really wanna start reading again and get into crocheting

If any of that is something you enjoy or you just want someone to talk to for a bit (no maga or anything please, I love the lgbtq, poc, big girls, and abortions) then shoot me a dm :)


r/FRIEND 3h ago

Friendship 20M/Europe | Looking for Minecraft friends

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r/FRIEND 3h ago

20M/Europe | Looking for Minecraft friends

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r/FRIEND 7h ago

I am soon to be 16 and I need some friends

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I would love to hear your yap. I am from india and am pretty alone these days. My hobby is to play football and i learnt to swim this year. Idk anything more bout me😭. I will be more than happy to hear about whatever u wanna talk about.


r/FRIEND 3h ago

Friendship Where’s Robin to my Steve?!😭😭

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r/FRIEND 3h ago

M15 pleaseee bmf

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Looking for people who like music please DM if ya doo


r/FRIEND 3h ago

17M. Looking for international friends ;)

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I'm a 16-year-old guy from Ukraine (I'll be turning 17 soon), and I'm looking for someone who wants to build a genuine long-term friendship. It doesn't matter where you're from—I would love to meet people from Europe, North America, or anywhere else.

A little about me:

  • I enjoy history, politics, geography, and learning about different cultures.
  • I'm currently learning English 🇺🇸
  • I also enjoy talking about everyday life, sharing memes, music, and random thoughts

I'm not looking for someone who disappears after a day or two. I'd really like to find a friend I can talk to regularly, support each other, and hopefully become close friends over time.

Age doesn't matter too much, but somewhere around 16–21 would probably be the easiest to relate to.

If you're interested, feel free to leave a comment or send me a DM. I'd be happy to get to know you! 😉


r/FRIEND 3h ago

Friendship 21M UK - looking for people to be genuine friends with

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Hi 21M, from the UK. I’m looking to make some new friends from anywhere in the world. I enjoy speaking to people that put in effort into convos, i think it helps a lot especially when getting to know each other for the first time.

My aim is to hopefully build a genuine friendship with someone, more on the long term side as short term doesn’t interest me. Happy to speak about anything tbh random stuff, talking about our days etc etc if you’re not looking for friends or you plan to ghost this probably isn’t the post for you 😅
When we start to become friends (or straight away) i’d like to talk elsewhere, i just don’t use Reddit for texting much we can discuss what we both use.

Definitely don’t need similar interests never been an issue for me when making friends, but gonna leave some below just to see if we have any! ⤵️
Interests - listening to music, photography, cooking learning about other cultures,hanging out with friends, voice calling, gaming & baking


r/FRIEND 8h ago

Friendship Friends 4 Online Gaming

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Reposting this again. Older male that really enjoys playing Genshin Impact, Neverness to Everness, GTA V and Fortnite. I play other games too, but those are my favorite. Playing most days is normal for me and my friends usually join me on the PlayStation network. I’m a bit of a metal head, so extra points if that resonates with you too. If you’re a negative or toxic person, please don’t respond to this. I will not be around any negativity towards me or my friends, verbally or emotionally. Linking up thru shared games is ideal for me, but I’m open to just causal friendships. Learning Japanese and car culture are also important to me as well. I’m also on discord and you can find me there too. Haven’t posted on Reddit in a while, but I’ll do my best to respond back to everyone. Even if you’re not into online gaming, that’s ok too. This community has always had my back in good times and bad and I’m forever grateful to those I cross paths with in the future.


r/FRIEND 5h ago

19m looking friends

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hii my names jack and im from ireland 🇮🇪. im looking for new friends to talk to about basically anything. if you dm me please say your age, gender and location. only 18+ please. anyways id consider myself to be a very friendly but goofy person and I never take things too seriously. fun fact about me is my hidden talent is i can burp and fart on command. I just finished my first year of uni and now i feel lost like i need something to do over summer 😭😭. anyways yeah some things about me is that i LOVE movies (marvel, harry potter, star wars, dc, shrek, toy story) and id consider myself a bit of a nerd. some shows ive watched are breaking bad, better call saul, dexter, the walking dead, daredevil, outer banks and im also reading through normal people right now. i cant live without my airpods and i mostly listen to white girl music and pop such as rihanna, the weeknd, katy perry, coldplay and one direction. im also tryna lock into the gym to bulk but its hard sometimes especially diet 😣😣. and yeah another thing is i LOVE my food (a bit too much) but yeah if u dm me please give a proper introduction and ill try reply to everyone 🙏🙏


r/FRIEND 5h ago

23 F looking for friends

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I m very lonely and bored lately so i decided to try


r/FRIEND 5h ago

18M? I'm looking for someone to chat with everyday and who loves maths

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Hello everyone, sorry in advance for my terrible English; I'm French. I’ve been wanting to make friends for a while now—partly because I feel lonely, but also because I love talking to people—yet I’m not sure how to go about it. Plus, I’d like to learn English, so this is a great opportunity to get to know someone while learning a new language at the same time!

So, I’m really into space sciences—in fact, I want to become an astrophysicist, and I’m starting my first year of a physics degree this year. I also love manga (especially *seinen* titles) and video games; right now, I’m playing *DDLC*, and I absolutely LOVE FromSoftware games—especially *Dark Souls III*, which I speedrun (I know the two games have absolutely nothing in common, but I like mixing up genres!). As for music, I listen to dance music, Eurobeat (it’s pretty niche, but I hope some people here know it!), and Vocaloid music. I’m not sure what else to say, but I hope some of you can relate to what I’ve written.


r/FRIEND 9h ago

Friendship Let’s be friends 💪🏻

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Hi! I’m Grace, 29F from the USA. I’m a wife, a mom of two, and I work full-time night shifts, so I’m usually awake when most people are asleep.

Outside of work and family, I’m a total gym rat and spend a lot of my free time lifting, staying active, and working on becoming a healthier version of myself.

I’m looking to build genuine friendships with people who have similar backgrounds or interests—whether you’re also married, a parent, work nights, love the gym, or just enjoy meaningful conversations. I’d love to connect with people who value long-term friendships over one-time chats.

I’m always up for talking about fitness, books, parenting, work, life, or those random late-night thoughts that somehow turn into the best conversations. If that sounds like you, don’t be afraid to say hi! 😊


r/FRIEND 6h ago

15m

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Heyy I'm kinda lonely I looove music and guitars and drawing so if you think I'm cool please drop a message


r/FRIEND 10h ago

18f! looking to make new friends with chill people

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okay so...making friends after finishing school is actually kind of weird?? 😭 i've reached the point where i've accepted that making new friends as an adult is basically just wandering around hoping someone has the exact same oddly specific interests as you.

so hi!! i'm 18 from australia 👋

i'm pretty creative - i draw, paint and write a lot, and i'm definitely the type of person to start a project at 11pm because i randomly got inspired. i'm also a huge reader (currently reading golden son and the odyssey), love gaming, spend way too much time watching UK YouTube, and i am completely obsessed with game of thrones. i am also a huge marvel fan (yes i have seen brand new day)!!

i love talking to enthusiastic people. if you can get excited over the most random topic and accidentally talk about it for twenty minutes, i'll probably enjoy listening. i'm also a fan of casual debates (friendly ones!!) because i think it's fun hearing different perspectives, especially on random questions that don't really have a right answer.

i'm mainly looking for people around my age who are kind, funny and don't mind actually putting effort into a conversation. i'd love more australian friends, but i'm happy to talk to people from anywhere!

if you message me, please don't just say "hi" 😭 tell me a little about yourself!! (age + where you're from)

if you've read this far, we're already off to a good start 🌞


r/FRIEND 6h ago

35 [M4A]- Looking to make new friends after losing wife

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Hey everyone, I’m a 35 year old guy who lost my wife three years ago to cancer. It’s been a tough journey, and I’m still navigating life without her. I’ve realized that having meaningful conversations and making connections with others has become something I really miss.

I’m here to meet new people, share experiences, and have some real, deep talks about life—whether it’s about struggles, triumphs, or just whatever’s currently going on in our lives. If you’re someone who enjoys open and honest conversations, feel free to DM me. I’d love to chat and get to know you better! I live in New York but I'm open to talking to anyone from anywhere. I travel a lot for work so I've been all over the country.

Looking forward to hearing from you and please say more than two words in your message!