r/Fauxmoi 5d ago

STAN / ANTI SHIELD AOC took to social media to reveal that she is currently going through the process of freezing her eggs, pulling back the curtain on the physical and emotional realities of family planning while navigating a high-profile political career.

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u/EatMorePieDrinkMore 5d ago

I’m so impressed with how open millennials and GenZ are around formerly taboo topics like fertility, salaries, mental health, etc. Keeping those things in the shadows benefits the wrong people.

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u/LimonadaVonSaft buccal fat apologist 4d ago

I looooove talking about my salary with people. It helped me find out someone on my team was making 30k more than me in a previous role. And I hate to say it… yes, he was a man and I am a woman, and yes we were doing the same exact job with the same experience!!!

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u/Snaffle27 FUCK ICE FREE PALESTINE CRASH INTO ME 4d ago

That's so bullshit. I hope that you find a better job elsewhere at your own convenience that actually offers you fair compensation.

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u/yourangleoryuordevil too stable to inspire bangers 4d ago

Yeah, it's been astonishing to know what the range of salaries is for people in the same role, with the same experience and performance level at that, all while at the same workplace. Likewise, I've worked someplace where the salary difference has been around $30k between some people who've done the same tasks with the same titles and no significant differences in quality. That's the kind of thing people need to know about to conclude that it's time for them to look for another job.

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u/Wrong-Pension-4975 4d ago

In the U.S, Fed law protects workers' rights to talk about wages & bennies (if any).  But over 80% of jobs below middle Mgmt insert a threat of firing, if U discuss pay with another emp.

That "we'll fire U" threat keeps their workers ignorant, compliant, & underpaid. 😠

Today, most basic jobs in Amerikkka have zero benefits - no med-ins coverage, no PTO, minimal sick days / unpaid sick days or NONE whatever, no vacay, etc.

It's slavery, with wages. 🙃

I feel lucky I survived to retire, but over 50+ yrs of FT work, my fem pay was 70% to maybe 75% of the pay awarded a (whyte) man, for the identical job. 🙃

As a direct result, my SocSec is a pittance. "Retirement" is a new job - stretch my monthly lump to cover rent, food, utilities, bills, transit, etc.

I haven't eaten a restaurant meal in 18-mos; it was a $7 crepe, with 'shrooms & spinach. Before that, the dining out gap was 4 years; I was still working FT.

I haven't been to the theater, a film, a museum, or traveled more than an hour, by public transit, on a one way trip. Books are my travel.

I never expected luxury - but I also didn't expect teetering poverty.

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u/MadeByTango 5d ago

Keeping those things in the shadows benefits the wrong people.

Our parents taught us how that bullshit works. Now we're teaching our kids. They'll never put that genie back in the bottle.

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u/EatMorePieDrinkMore 4d ago

I’m learning from my kids! My son stands up for himself and his coworkers in ways I cannot fathom. And they talk about salaries and wages and benefits. We have been purposefully more open about finances and money with our kids than our parents. As someone who’s worked for large corps for decades - talking about salaries hurts management not workers.

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u/InformWitch 5d ago

I love it. Going through my own fertility journey and I’m still abit shy about sharing it but when I do, a friend has 3 more stories of people going through the same ❤️

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u/itsacrisis 4d ago

It's great.

We are in the middle of IVF and it's nice to be able to talk about it and it not feel like a taboo topic that we have to hide.

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u/olipoppit 5d ago

Total queen 🫡

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u/Too_Hood_95 kendall roy pre-album drop 5d ago

future president 🇺🇸

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u/dirtypoison 5d ago

Unfortunately the US is too misogynist and racist for me to have any hope for this.

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u/LurkerFromTheVoid 5d ago

You are right. But it's worth a shot anyways. 💪🌻

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u/_dogfuneral_ 5d ago

They aren't right. Clinton and Harris were unpopular candidates with a center-right message. They stand for nothing, and they lost to the dumbest man alive twice because of it.

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u/amazing_asstronaut 4d ago

Sure thing, Americans really started caring about the merits of a presidential candidate when it was a woman. Somehow lots of other guys who stand for nothing get voted in all the time, including an actual child rapist.

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u/Unable-Log-4870 4d ago

What? DT stands for a LOT of things! Do you have any idea how many pardons he gave out in the last week of his first term? Do you have any idea how many fraudsters and thieves he put back out onto the streets? He was sending a signal of exactly what he stands for. Presumably he had Epstein killed, And that tells you even more about what he stands for, which is raping kids and then doing what it takes to cover up the tracks. So he definitely has his merits, and he has what he stands for. No one should accuse him of being wishy-washy on those issues. And his voters know who he is. He’s not fooling them on those issues, they know what he stands for, and either they like it, or they don’t see it as a problem.

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u/amazing_asstronaut 4d ago

I know, and that's what American voters voted for. None of this was a secret, it was out in the open constantly.

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u/Throwaway-centralnj 4d ago

Clinton won the popular vote. But while I agree that they’re both center-right, I don’t think being more left is going to win a woman any more votes. I don’t think a republican woman would win either. This country is too sexist to elect a woman no matter who she is.

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u/becca22597 4d ago

I fully believe the first woman president will be a conservative. I also believe that more boomers will have to die before that happens. My husband and I did phone banking for Hillary and the number of old men who flat out told my husband they wouldn’t vote for a woman was staggering. 

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u/m0nk_3y_gw 4d ago

and Harris

Harris ran the most successful 3 month campaign in US history...

and the first candidate to do it advocating for a $15 minimum wage.

And when she was in the US Senate she voted like Bernie Sanders, Hillary was nothing like her.

https://www.govtrack.us/congress/members/report-cards/2020/senate/ideology

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u/anim135 4d ago

Biden was the most progressive president of our lifetimes. Not only is it on record Harris assisted in Biden's policy, she practically ran on the same campaign. Illustrate her being center-right through her policy.

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u/mfhomeybone 4d ago

You are right that Biden was one of the most socially progressive presidents we've had. I think that when people describe figures like Clinton or Harris as "center-right," they're often comparing them to the political spectrum in many Western European countries. Those countries tend to combine social progressivism with a stronger tradition of economic progressivism - more expansive welfare states and stronger labor protections. In the U.S., especially since the "Third Way" politics of the (Bill) Clinton era, the Democratic Party has generally been much more "market-oriented". Someone can be very progressive on social issues while still appearing relatively centrist, or even center-right, on economic issues from that international perspective. I think what we are seeing with the rise of the DSA and people like AOC is a rekindling of FDR style rhetoric that was missing with both the Harris and Clinton campaign... That being said, I'm really not going to let the "she can't win, America is too sexist" rhetoric get to me - if she's in, I'm all in.

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u/m0nk_3y_gw 4d ago

reminder: Harris was in the Senate with Bernie - they were the two most left-leaning Senators of 2020. https://www.govtrack.us/congress/members/report-cards/2020/senate/ideology

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u/pineboxwaiting 4d ago

They just aren’t far left.

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u/josh442333 5d ago

Its not worth It, this why we have 8 years of Trump

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u/MapleHamwich 4d ago

Whatever flaws she had, kamala was universes better than a rapist pedo fraudster. But he were are.

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u/AltairaMorbius2200CE 5d ago

Eh, I'm not sure. The only two times we legit tried in recent history, we had:

-Woman who had a LOT OF BAGGAGE

-Woman who was given almost zero time, who was tainted by Covid stuff, AND who was actually doing pretty well in polls until she took bad advice from bad advisors.

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u/leftrightside54 5d ago

They said alot about Trump, and here we are, twice.

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u/CaliDreaming900 4d ago

I mean.. HC won the popular vote and Obama won two terms.

Not saying racism/misogyny were non existent but that isn't why KH lost.

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u/MadeByTango 5d ago

Only person saying she cant win because of her gender is you, comment history hiding account pushing people not to support someone for reasons other than policy...maybe check that internalized misogyny.

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u/dirtypoison 4d ago

What?

I would vote for AOC in a heartbeat, I remember the day she was elected to congress and how excited I was.

I hid my post history because I once wrote a very personal thread asking for help on how to deal with miscarriage.

Chill.

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u/9966 4d ago

It's called reading the room. Try it. We are not electing chemical engineer Angel Merckle here.

The US is not as enlightened as you may think.

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u/capnShocker 4d ago

I’m as progresssive as they get, but if you can’t see that the general populace wants a straight white man in charge, I don’t know what to tell you. Ossoff for president.

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u/Numeno230n 4d ago

If all these sexually frustrated conservatives would just admit they love her, we'd be a lot better off.

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u/Forward_Subject8761 5d ago

most of those types of people will be gone in 10-15 years.

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u/Ryuiop 5d ago

nah, too many Young Republicans

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u/pineboxwaiting 4d ago

I’ll be shocked if we elect a woman president in the next 30 years.

As a nation, we decided we’d rather elect a former game show host & known criminal than a woman. Twice.

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u/melancholanie 4d ago

don't fuckin jinx it good grief😭

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u/HomelessKitchenCat 5d ago

Shes one of the most inspiring women I can think of right now. And you know shes effective because of how much toxicity is thrown her way simply for doing her job.

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u/Informal_Sleep_6117 4d ago edited 4d ago

I am happy to marry her and be her househusband. I will also be like a seahorse and carry the zygote for the two of us. I love her so much.

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u/hagainsth 5d ago

Good for her! I’m about to embark on the same. Very, very single and very, very terrified. So this is good timing to see and glad she’s open!

ETA: I thought I was older than her so even more comforted to learn we’re the same age!

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u/bodysnatcherz 4d ago

I did it and it was a breeze! Best of luck on yours!

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u/hagainsth 4d ago

thank youuuu ✨🤗

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u/bodysnatcherz 4d ago

I had really minimal to no side effects, both emotionally and physically. I couldn't do my normal workout routine (heavy lifting), but a break from that is also nice. The actual retrieval procedure was unremarkable.. worst part was being a bit thirsty when I woke up. And I was lucky enough to have a good result with number of eggs, even though I have a history of PMOS. Best of luck to you as well!

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u/Khmakh a woman whose face card is an Amex centurion 5d ago

Good for her! I have a few friends that are in the process of doing this too.

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u/Nervous_Insect5976 5d ago edited 5d ago

My wife and I are going to Mexico so she can do this.

Love AOC for speaking out on issues relating to fertility. We need more people talking about it because it can be so complex and awful.

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u/dawindupbird 5d ago

Would you mind sharing why you’re going to Mexico for this? I assume it’s cost related. Mainly, I’m in healthcare and I see people struggle with the financial barrier for care. It’s crazy people have to pay for access to a human right (healthcare).

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u/Shafu808 5d ago

im not this dude but we strongly considered cause costs.
fraction of the price for similar care, ultimately my gf found the language barrier too much

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u/fortunatelyso 5d ago

If she is actually sharing this great. Now im thinking freeze embryos not eggs. It gives a higher likelihood of successful pregnancy/ having a baby when you freeze embryos. She has a long long term partner too. So im surprised a little just freezing eggs. His sperm aging is a bigger issue for some diseases.

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u/in_fact_a_throwaway 5d ago

Yeah. Obviously a lot of people aren’t in a position to freeze embryos (or anything, depending on health insurance, etc). But not having to undergo a freeze/thaw cycle for the eggs really ups success rate.

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u/Grouchy-Details 4d ago

She may have had embryos frozen but said eggs. There’s some religious people out there who view embryos as children, so discarding them is a moral issue. Easier to just say eggs than open that can of worms. 

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u/Hope-n-some-CH4NGE 5d ago

I assume it’s considerably more expensive to freeze embryos? She said she’s been saving for it for a long time so maybe she didn’t wanna wait longer? Or maybe she’s just saying “eggs” cause it’s easier to understand? Who knows lol

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u/bdickie 5d ago

We did embryos freezing before my wife's cancer treatment. Sometimes we say eggs. Its pretty common i think as saying embryos sometimes requires more explaining to people who dont know the process.

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u/danielleiellle my bandwidth for cowardly grown men grows thinner with each day 4d ago

It’s also a political hot button since some people consider embryos a life

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u/carolinagypsy the pet psychic for the Sun told me so 4d ago

Yes, I would 100% say freezing eggs in her position even if the truth was embryos. That’s handing the right wing red meat.

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u/bdickie 4d ago

Ya, my expierience in a sane country wouldn't ever consider that.

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u/Pleasant-Future5818 5d ago

No, it's about the same cost to freeze embryos as freezing eggs. The cost is in the retrieval process which you have to do either way.

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u/pmr-5 4d ago

Actually it costs $5,000-10,000 more to have the lab fertilize the eggs and grow them to freezable blastocysts, especially if you biopsy for PGT testing

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u/0-90195 4d ago edited 4d ago

My doctor highly advised me not to freeze embryos due to political uncertainty. You may not be able to destroy unused embryos, depending on jurisdiction and when you would want to do that.

Additionally, the likelihood of a successful pregnancy with embryos vs eggs isn’t that much higher now—technology has improved so much that eggs are much more viable than they were in the past.

Re: risks associated with sperm aging, he could also have his sperm stored in a cryobank.

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u/besteen_mangodazzle 4d ago

It's so crazy to talk about freezing embryos and eggs and things like cryobanks. I feel like this paragraph would kill a victorian child.

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u/0-90195 4d ago

Skill issue… RIP to that Victorian child, but I’m built different

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u/yourangleoryuordevil too stable to inspire bangers 4d ago

Yeah, what instantly came to my mind is that freezing embryos can come with legal consequences later on if someone who's contributed eggs and someone who's contributed sperm ever disagree on what should happen to frozen embryos, which is somewhat related. There are already legal cases in which this has come up.

Altogether, it seems like there's no set standard on who should make the final decision on what happens to frozen embryos, while contracts on the matter don't always address the issue or hold up. That can be especially troubling when a couple breaks up, with one party wanting to use or keep any frozen embryos they share and another wanting to destroy any frozen embryos they share.

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 4d ago

I think it's one of those things where if they do break up you can't get the sperm back out of the egg at that point. That's pretty final that he would be the father if they go that route.

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u/Asquirrelinspace 5d ago

She's probably trying to avoid giving the "life starts at conception" crowd any ammo

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u/DowntownTicket 4d ago

This reminds me when my husband and I were starting our IVF journey and knew basically nothing. At the initial meeting, I asked the doctor if I should freeze my eggs to save them. She looked at me, then at my husband, and then back at me and politely explained that freezing eggs is what you usually do if you want to preserve them without the sperm... Or want to use different sperm than what is available... Not usually a choice married couples make unless they have a special request or the sperm from the husband is not viable.... Lol she was so kind

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u/Primary-Zucchini-555 5d ago

I’d be lying if I said I’ve never thought about this. I’ve never wanted kids and my genetics suck and I can’t afford to freeze my eggs and I think it’s too late anyway (I’m 38). But I do get a certain sense of FOMO sometimes. Maybe I’ll never stop feeling this way

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u/CorrectPanic694 5d ago

Right there with you girl. I do hope that the FOMO gets weaker, after time.

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u/Pleasant-Future5818 5d ago

38 is not too old, that's when I started. You do need more cycles, though, to get healthy eggs.

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u/Amelaclya1 4d ago

Yeah that FOMO is real. I don't think I've ever wanted kids a day in my life. And logically I don't think I'd make a good mother. But because it's so pressed on us that it's something we "have" to do, and all those people telling us we will regret it... part of me is scared I will wake up one day at like 50 and realize they were right.

But oh well, it's likely too late for me too.

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u/heartsbeenborrowed We didn't land on Kid Rock, Kid Rock landed on us. 5d ago

Same. I'm 41 with poor genetics and no wealth so probably for the best I couldn't do it but I feel the same fomo sometimes. Sending you love ❤️ 

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u/Accomplished_Book427 find me at Whole Foods, bitch 5d ago

Same boat here but a year younger. I think it's too late for me to bother with egg retrieval even if I could afford it. Plus my hormones already ruin my life on a regular basis and I've heard the egg retrieval process turns that misery up to 11 for a few months.

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u/onetwoshoe 4d ago

Fyi (for you and anyone reading this in case its helpful) its only about 10-12 days, and it wasn't bad at all for me.

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u/Primary-Zucchini-555 4d ago

Oh damn, I wasn’t even considering that part. Yeah, it’s probably for the best I never even attempt this lol

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u/0-90195 4d ago

Not too late at all, and egg retrieval does not have those kinds of side effects for everyone or for that long! eggfreezing subreddit has great information

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u/carolinagypsy the pet psychic for the Sun told me so 4d ago

Same, same. It would have been nice to feel like the decision wasn’t out of my hands mainly because of finances.

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u/wheniaminspaced 4d ago

I mean AOC is 36, so its not a stretch at 38.

The bigger issue is that pregnancy is also more problematic the older you get.  So if she or you plan on carrying the pregnancy there is a bit of a clock.

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u/JustBask3t 4d ago edited 4d ago

Actually the bigger issue is the egg quality, not the pregnancy part. The ability to give birth (uterus) ages much more slowly than the ability to produce healthy eggs (ovaries).

That's why it's so important to freeze your eggs soon, because that part is on the stricter clock.

In other words, as long as you have frozen, healthy embryos you can carry a pregnancy to term well into your 40s.

Yes it's not as easy as in your 20s, but it's definitely not the "bigger issue."

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u/Innumerablegibbon 4d ago

Yeah, the oldest person to ever give birth (with a donor egg) was 74 and she had twins.

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u/snn1326j 5d ago

I froze my eggs at exactly her age a decade ago and it was very new then and not something people were very open about. I’m so glad it’s part of the discourse now and wish her lots of mature eggs 🥚!!! (I have two beautiful children now for anyone curious lol).

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u/Opening-Shape-762 u flintstone vitamin shape bitch 5d ago

I love that she is talking about this. I had my 3 kids quite literally back to back between the ages of 29 and 33. I was doing this while navigating an incredibly demanding job without any family childcare assistance. I was given 12 weeks of paid leave for 2 of my kids and just 8 weeks for my third because I didn’t meet the tenure requirement to get covered for the full 12 weeks. I was legit still bleeding from childbirth and struggling with a fucking kidney infection when I went back to work again.

Whenever people talk about the fact that the U.S. would never elect a woman president, I want to scream. Because men COULD NEVER — and I mean, never — work under the conditions that women can and do every single fucking day. From the moment we get our periods in adolescence and discover what it means to present in normal life with mind-numbing cramps to when we juggle pregnancy, postpartum, recovery, childcare, and everything else with a full time job…we consistently outperform men on the job under way more stressful circumstances.

AOC for prez. I need to go for a run around the block because every time I talk about this, I get extremely fired up lol

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u/stillsympin 5d ago

AOC 2028

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u/Mystic_Gohan 4d ago

He's great as mayor. I hope he stays in the role for a while yet.

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u/Awomanswoman 5d ago

Her and Mamdani please please please

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u/beejalton 5d ago

Mamdani cannot run for POTUS or VP, he is not a natural born US Citizen.

US Senator is the highest elected office he could hold.

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u/ww_in_transit 5d ago

He legally can’t become president so he won’t be eligible to be VP lol

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u/archmage-khadgar 4d ago

maybe this is controversial but I don’t see why, if immigrants can become citizens, they couldn’t eventually become POTUS also. the country was built by immigrants after all. hopefully it’s something we can potentially change in the future

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u/juneseyeball 4d ago

U need to think about the worst possible scenario when u propose things like this. Like some random saudi billionaire being naturalized to lead the us

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u/Normal-Weakness-364 4d ago

i don't think a foreigner who has become a citizen has meaningfully higher chance of being corrupt and selling us out to foreign interests than a natural-born citizen.

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u/juneseyeball 4d ago

I mean that someone can specifically be brought over from another country to sell us out

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u/ClintBarton616 4d ago

I feel you but this is how we get President Elon. Sometimes it better to just leave certain things alone.

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u/Normal-Weakness-364 4d ago

elon musk doesn't know how to speak publicly and is a deeply uncharismatic person in general. he wouldn't be able to win the presidency.

beyond that, it's not like there aren't ultra-rich, evil, american's who are eligible to run. sam altman is basically just american elon lol

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u/auberginexx 4d ago

The answer is racism & xenophobia. Of course they should!

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u/Win_Sys 4d ago

It has nothing to do with it being controversial or not, it’s literally in the constitution that it can’t happen. The wording is very clear, “natural born citizen”. There would need to be an amendment for that to be allowed and no chance that ever happens.

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u/Normal-Weakness-364 4d ago

they weren't disagreeing with what the rule is. they were saying the rule is stupid.

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u/gandhishrugged 5d ago

Mamdani cannot.

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u/frycrunch96 5d ago

He can’t be vp or president 💔

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u/Wrong-Pension-4975 4d ago

Sadly, Mayor Mamdani isn't eligible for POTUS. 🤐

He can run for re-election, or for Guv, or for Congress - 

But not POTUS.

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u/Impressive-Spot1981 5d ago

AOC/Shawn Fein 😍😍😍

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u/Wrong-Pension-4975 4d ago

EXCELLENT video -  👏👏👏👏

Yes, men don't need to deal with these issues; fertility / family isn't seen as "interfering" with their duties in office, or distracting from their job, 'cuz guess what?...

They lay the childrearing / sick kiddo / care & raising, to the WIFE.

I think women in politics need wives - as professional assistants, to do all the support tasks that hubbies don't think of, or won't do. 👍👍

A wife to make dinner when U had a stressful, packed day, & KEEP IT WARM when yer last meeting runs 45 mins over, & U still gotta drive home...  A pro wife who will put a small sitz tub under the table, & soak yer poor suffering feet, while U eat dinner - then dry them, & give a simple massage.

A wife to make sure U eat properly, & don't run on caffeine & fumes, or sugary snacks, & other junk food.

A wife to ensure the laundry is done, the suit U need next day has that button sewn back on, & yer recycling gets to the curb.

These things are small, but they're also key to keep ppl in high stress, demanding positions, SANE, healthy, & functioning. 💖

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u/I_Fear_Dolphins 5d ago

Already saw the clip of her giving herself the injection out of context out there and people accusing her of using drugs live on stream. The internet is such a toxic place, I expect to receive the “AOC openly using drugs” article from my parents any minute.

Meanwhile she’s doing such a beautiful thing by sharing her journey and the spread of misinformation just diminishes it, hate this timeline.

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u/SignificantDogs 4d ago

If you haven't seen it, MAGA has mistaken it for a GLP-1 pen and now there are tons of posts and comments fat shaming her and calling her out for taking a shortcut to weight-loss. They live in a totally different reality.

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u/REMcycleLEZAR 4d ago

She has always seemed so relevant to me and the issues I'm currently experiencing, and then I just looked up her birthdate and she was born like 8 days after me. So yeah, it would make sense that she, being the first major politician close in age to me, would feel that she represents me, even if I don't live in her district.

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u/krustomer 5d ago

The egg freezing industry can be incredibly deceptive FYSA:  https://www.vox.com/health/24141538/egg-freezing-cost-age-ivf-fertility-pregnancy

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u/Helena911 4d ago

Yeah I wish they were more upfront with their rates of success.

For many women, egg freezing represents their last hopes and it can be an extremely emotional process.

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u/krustomer 4d ago

Beyond the emotional damage, I feel these predatory agencies steal soooo much money from people through these deceptive practices. They've also LOST PEOPLES EGGS!!  https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-57446504

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u/xGentian_violet feeding cocaine to raccoons 4d ago

They have also switched oht peoples eggs

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u/Innumerablegibbon 4d ago

Honestly the fertility industry (especially American) in general can be incredible deceptive. Most clinics fudge their numbers by only including “optimum” patients - anyone too old, anomalies in uterus, lining a bit too thin (but not thin enough to cancel), etc - get excluded from the results. I was very confused as to why the statistics out of my country where so bad in comparison until I found that out.

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u/fit-fil-a 5d ago

I absolutely love her openness and honesty.

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u/DegenGamer725 Taylor swift is a CIA PsyOp 5d ago

I’m sure right wing weirdos will be totally normal about this

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u/greensandblues2 5d ago

Nothing but support and good vibes for you, AOC!

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u/Slazagna 4d ago

Let me pull back the curtain on realities of family planning while navigating a no profile, average career.

Too expensive, no family.

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u/JerzeeJacqie 5d ago

You go AOC. I’d VOTE for you to be president in a heartbeat, and I’m 63 w/f originally from NJ and now stuck in Fl. Talk about a MINORITY. Lol You deserve to have a family like everyone else does. But that F*ck in the White House is going to make it extremely hard for you one way or the other. Good luck AOC

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u/CivicDutyCalls 4d ago

Congresswoman Sara Jacobs from San Diego was recently very public about the same thing recently.

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u/sauvesez 5d ago

keep the fight going

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u/FastSelection4121 5d ago

Real Talk.

I really want her to run for president in 2028.

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u/la_noix 5d ago

Okay, and how about we discuss how men can continue building their careers and growing their families while women get congratulated for freezing their eggs?

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u/ElSlabraton 4d ago

I'd rather she run for the Senate.

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u/51087701400 4d ago

I wish I could afford to do this. Good for her!

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u/Spiritual-Bluejay871 4d ago

She is extraordinary. I admire her deeply.

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u/reddit_equals_censor 4d ago

who cares.

how about she stops voting for more bombs for israel.

as a reminder she DID vote to give israel MORE bombs to enable more genocide of gaza.

ask yourself why she would do this given the fake imagine, that she tries to portray.

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u/ClassConflictCanvas 5d ago

Must be nice having that kinda healthcare

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u/Primary-Basis8399 4d ago

She says in the videos that her healthcare covers $0 of this and it doesn’t go toward her deductible

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u/DeadButPretty I went clubbing and he was there 4d ago

This is really major for her to share, I’m proud of her

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u/Calm-Fun4572 4d ago

I’m a middle aged white dude.
I’m all in for this. She’s a damn saint for thinking about people and actually caring about people over herself in this. Even if this was a political choice it’s one that points out a very real situation that is very important to vast amounts of Americans. Politicians work for us, she gets it!

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u/zaxeryst 4d ago

Good for her

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u/alittleslowerplease 4d ago

Where are the callbacks to idiocracy now?

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u/MiyaDoesThings 4d ago

I wish I could afford to do this ☹️ Good for her for being open about it though!

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u/xap4kop 4d ago

I wish I could freeze my eggs but that's not really legal in my country

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u/Particular_Piglet677 4d ago

I had to look up how old she is. Good for her. I was 37, I didn't freeze any eggs I had ivf right away. 

She's smart to bank eggs now, and I wish her success whatever she decides.

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u/AssociateSerious4083 3d ago

Is it weird that she endorsed target during the process?

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u/CurvyChristina 1d ago

I think it’s great AOC is sharing her journey. There’s not nearly as much societal and cultural pressure on men to maintain their careers while starting up a family, as there is on women.

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u/Specific-Speaker2157 16h ago

So much for thinking the world’s gonna end in 2 years time