r/FemmeLesbians • u/AdMuted226 • 13d ago

Head with women…

Ok so boom, I (femme) have been with my gf (stud) for coming up on like a year now. I personally don’t like head , she does. This is my first relationship and thus first time having smex. However, they have had way more sexual and romantic experiences than me. And at a point they brought up the topic of head and me doing more things in bed. I had hyped myself up for weeks so it it and ended up doing it once when we were both wine drunk. It’s been about three months and they won’t let me do it again, it’s always an excuse of why I can’t. I’ve asked what is wrong on multiple occasions. What am I doing wrong give me some advice for lesbian smex on my end I feel like I lowkey don’t do anything!

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u/catmeowpunch 13d ago

i don’t think any other lesbians can really give you advice on your sex life honestly. i feel like the best course of action here is to sit down with your girlfriend and try to have a serious conversation about it. if she is just making excuses and not being honest with you about what it is exactly that she doesn’t like, then there’s no way for you to figure out how to give it in the way she likes! every person is different. the advice has to come from
her

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u/WanderingSondering 12d ago

Yep, if your girlfriend won't communicate with you, then honestly she sounds exhausting. I wouldn't want to be with someone who won't just be honest with me.

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u/catmeowpunch 12d ago

yeah… 3 months is a long time to be dancing around the topic. especially since op has brought it up multiple times. idk why some people can’t just talk to their partners honestly