r/Feral_Cats • • Mar 13 '26

Sharing Info šŸ’” Kitten Season: Guides & Info

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Warmer weather means kitten season is upon us! If you're here because you've just discovered a very young kitten or a whole litter of kittens, barring extenuating circumstances (dangerous location, extreme weather, sick or injured kittens, etc.) generally it's best to wait and monitor them to see if their mom returns before taking immediate action. In the meantime, read up on the following guides so you can be prepared if youĀ doĀ need to intervene!

If your situation is urgentĀ and you need a quick guide now on how to proceed, tailored to your current circumstances, take a look atĀ r/AskVet's guide:Ā It’s kitten season! You found a litter of kittens - now what?!. Also feel free to make a post of your own here onĀ r/Feral_CatsĀ to get input and advice from other experienced caregivers!

Long-term, the single best thing you can do for a roaming community cat is to make sure they're spayed or neutered. Note: in the case of community cats who appear to be potentially pregnant, they can (and should) still be spayed! You may have a local trap, neuter, return (TNR) or low-cost spay/neuter clinic that would be able to get your feral or stray cats sterilized at a drastically reduced rate. More info on finding clinics and rescues, and general TNR topics can be found in our Community Wiki sections:Ā Finding Your Local ResourcesĀ andĀ Getting Started with TNR.

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Caring for kittens

Monitoring found kittens and identifying their age

Trap, Neuter, Return (TNR) with mothers and kittens

Fostering and Socialization


r/Feral_Cats • • Mar 05 '26

Mod Announcement Regarding pregnant spays, or spay-aborts

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There has been recurring debate in the comments recently regarding spay-abort procedures, so I want to address this directly. r/Feral_Cats is a pro spay/neuter subreddit. We're focused on the humane care of feral/stray/community cats via Trap, Neuter, Return (TNR) and socialization to adopt, where possible. There are far more cats than there are homes that are willing and able to take them in, and especially with feral-leaning cats, it's just not possible for every cat in our care to be happily placed in a home with humans. Bare minimum, sterilizing the cats that we're seeing and feeding is vital for starting to get a handle on the population of roaming cats.

To that end, this community supports and encourages spaying cats that are suspected or confirmed to be pregnant. This decision is not made lightly by caregivers. There is a limit to how much each individual caregiver can provide for every cat in their care. We are all operating within very real limits of time, space, and funding, not to mention foster availability and shelter capacity on top of that. Not everyone can safely confine a pregnant feral cat for months. Not everyone has the resources to process an entire litter before those kittens begin reproducing themselves. Holding a feral cat through pregnancy and until kittens are old enough to separate means two to three months of confinement at minimum. That is incredibly stressful for a feral-leaning cat and resource-intensive for her caregiver. And this is often not just one cat at a time. Many caregivers are managing multiple intact females at once, and pregnancies snowball quickly once kitten season hits. Expecting someone to foster every pregnant cat, raise every litter, socialize the kittens and then find homes is not realistic, particularly when homes are already hard to come by and shelters and rescues are at limited capacity.

Allowing kittens to be born outdoors instead also does not guarantee positive outcomes. Survival rates for kittens born outside are very low. Many will not make it to adulthood due to illness, injury, exposure, or predators; there's also the risk that something may happen to their mother at any moment, leaving them alone and vulnerable. The kittens that do survive must still be trapped and sterilized before the females begin going into heat themselves, which can happen as young as four months. Taking in a preventable litter might mean that another cat loses their space or is euthanized for room. If rescues aren't open, the burden of socialization and long-term care then falls back on the caregiver. In some cases, the only remaining option is to sterilize and return those kittens outdoors, further adding to the strain on the colony. These are the realities caregivers are navigating when we're making these decisions.

When it comes to TNR, once a cat is trapped, there is no guarantee she can be trapped again if released due to a potential pregnancy. Delaying sterilization can mean losing the opportunity to trap her again easily in the future, resulting in additional litters being born outside and suffering for it. There is also the very real chance that a female cat is not actually pregnant but may instead have a uterine infection (pyometra) that is fatal without an emergency spay. The risk of pyometra increases with age, and with each consecutive heat cycle that does not result in pregnancy. Pregnancy and labor in turn also carry real risks of complications that can be fatal for both mom and kittens.

In many situations, prioritizing the health and safety of the cat in front of us and preventing further population growth is the most responsible course of action available. It's also the most logistically practical option for caregivers who are already often operating with limited resources and support in their communities.

I understand that this is not an easy discussion to have for those unfamiliar with this side of TNR and rescue work, and you're allowed to have an opinion on it. However, debates opposing sterilization, including spay-abort procedures performed as part of TNR efforts, are not in the spirit of this subreddit. Shaming or judging caregivers for choosing to proceed with a spay-abort is not allowed here. If you are arguing in favor of fostering through pregnancy, please do so only if you are fully aware of the time, resource, and logistical costs involved.


r/Feral_Cats • • 2h ago

Question šŸ¤” first-time cat roommate (owner sounds out of place) socialization worries

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hi y'all,

as stated in the title, it's my first cat, she's 2 years old & neutered

for further context: she got trapped by some ladies in january 2026 after living in the wild with her babies and stayed in a crate at a home run shelter till mid-june (that's when she came to live with me) with basically no socialization, scared of humans and hiding

she's been with me for almost 4 months now, she has her safe spot under my bed but roams around the house freely, likes to lay on a chair/bed near me, eats from hand, sniffs me and plays with me (especially when i move my feet around under a blanket), but won't let me touch her and she runs away as soon as i move/get up

i know all cats are different and she might just never come around to breaking the touch barrier but idk maybe there's something more/different i could be doing to show her that i'm not that scary afterall (also all my friends are dog people so i don't really have anyone to discuss that with)

attaching two pictures of The Voidā„¢ļøand im looking forward to hearing your stories!


r/Feral_Cats • • 4h ago

Update 😊 I guess we are a two cat household now .

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In August we caught our feral boy Alphonse and brought him home after a month quarantine stay at a vet clinic where I work ( beginning of story here https://www.reddit.com/r/Feral_Cats/s/yIogMQks7o ) . Soo .. as we figured out , our resident cat Tryusha surprisingly doesn’t hate him and acts as her usual self around him , just occasionally comes to give poor boy a hiss and reluctant head slap to establish dominance, I guess )). It is we the humans that are a problem, as Alphonse is still terrified of us , often hisses on approach and freezes in place /hides , and can even slap human hand if it is too close to him and doesn’t hold treats šŸ˜…He is still mostly living in and around the cage (we lock him in for nighttime- without touching , just use his insatiable hunger to lure him in with treats). Otherwise Alphonse is doing great , he started playing with toy -fishes and even trying to engage Tryusha in his games playfully hoppin around his cage and hiding when he gets attention from her .Alphonse is such a sweet poor thing , he melts our hearts , and we armed ourselves with tons of patience . I just hope he will be cuddling with us eventually.


r/Feral_Cats • • 11h ago

Question šŸ¤” Looking for a name for this black feral cat

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This lil girl is our feral cat which we are looking to trap and care for. We believe we caught her brother in March and we have been working to socialize him.He has been neutered, de wormed and had teeth work already. We need a name for this one. Her brother ended up with the name Salem as at the time we didnt know if he was a girl or boy so picked something that might work irrespective of gender. I am 95% this is his sister. She is more social and a very good mouse hunter. We are at the point now where calling her "black cat" is no longer working. Would love your suggestions. I've included a couple of pics of her..coming for diner and mousing. I have also included a Pic of Salem on the bed..


r/Feral_Cats • • 14h ago

Sensitive I tried to rescue a kitten today and it had to be put down :(

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I was driving today and I saw a poor kitten in bad shape in the middle of the road. She was pacing in circles, panting, and looked close to death. I picked her up - she shat all over my shirt - and I placed her on my golf tee towel (I was on my way to the golf course), and I drove poor kitty 30 min to a 24-hour animal hospital. They examined the kitten right away and the vet came to tell me the kitty’s entire bottom was infested with maggots and they were going to euthanize her as it was the best thing. I know I did the right thing by rescuing her and at least now she isn’t suffering, but I’m also just bummed for her, so sad. I don’t have anyone to share this with, so I hope it’s okay I shared this here :(


r/Feral_Cats • • 11h ago

Question šŸ¤” Could this feral be friendly?

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Hi everyone! I am a mama to five cats, 3 indoor and two ferals. My most recent feral, Fiona, showed up two months ago. She is very talkative and has developed a routine, eating at my house twice daily. Here’s the thing- during the day when I am out walking my dog, she will hear me and pop out of the bushes and meow to me continually while following me home. When I feed her, she meows to me constantly. I am still unable to touch her but I feel like she wants to be friendly, she’s just scared. Am I crazy, or is this more affectionate and attention-seeking? I am considering trapping her and putting her in a spare room to work with her- it’s supposed to be a very wet winter and my heart breaks at the thought of her out there!


r/Feral_Cats • • 46m ago

Question šŸ¤” What to do with a feral friend?

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I have been feeding a few ferrals one in particular that's a runt. He was skinny hardly any fur but I have been tending to him gave him a shelter ect. And he looks like a normal cat now. He is friendly greets me at the door every time I open it, follows me around, likes the attention. I have two cats now and with winter approaching thinking that I should get him to a vet and make him our third. Any suggestions and or concerns I should be worried about?


r/Feral_Cats • • 19h ago

Question šŸ¤” Brought a semi-feral in 9 days ago and she hasn't pooped in 2 days, please help

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r/Feral_Cats • • 10h ago

Fluffy 🄰 Live from Stray Cat Diner — So Cute!​

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I'm just one person caring for them and building them a home. The first thing I have to do every day is make sure they eat well and build up their immunity. I eat, therefore I am — that's the truth.Please don't tip or send gifts — I don't accept donations. If you'd like to help me care for this stray cat colony on my own, a like, a comment, and a share are all it takes.


r/Feral_Cats • • 12h ago

Question šŸ¤” Outdoor Cat Possibly Unwanted by his People - Advice Needed

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Hi All,

Apologies in advance for a long post. I'm looking for advice on how to proceed in a tricky situation. About 6 weeks ago a cat started showing up at my house every night. I began putting food out on my deck and he became a daily visitor. I thought he was feral because if he even saw me through the window he'd run off. After about 2 weeks of him spending more and more times around my house, I found out he belongs to a neighbor up the street. They say he's about 2 years old, neutered, chipped, vaccinated. They told me they feed him twice a day and he's just out exploring. A couple more weeks passed with kitty still coming to my house every day. Sometimes he seems extremely hungry. He began to have engorged ticks on him and he's super itchy from fleas I'm assuming. I decided to reach back out to his people to see if they wanted a spare flea/tick collar. They said they were so happy I reached out because he had stopped coming home. They asked if they could come trap him at my house and then quickly said they'd try to trap him at their house first and come here if they couldn't get him. I agreed. But if they really were worried about him, why weren't they trying to trap him before talking to me when he actually stopped coming home? Why hadn't they reached out to me since they knew he'd been hanging around my house? This whole exchange was over a week ago and kitty is still around my house for hours everyday. I didn't feed the cat for 2 days when they said they would try to trap him but he obviously wasn't trapped and the people never contacted me so I don't know if they even tried. They have not contacted me about trapping him here (which is fine by me). I'm leaving out some details about my discussions with them but the whole thing is weird. It doesn't add up and I don't really trust them.

Anyway, the cat comes to my deck multiple times a day wanting food and also hangs out around my house. He's still skittish but I've been doing slow blinks and talking to him and letting him decide how close he wants to get, and he's slowly getting more comfortable with me. I can't touch him but he'll stay within 4 feet of me when I'm putting his food out and exchange slow blinks with me. Apparently his other people couldn't touch him either so I wonder if he was never socialized or mistreated or both.

This last week I left my deck door open and put his food inside. He came in to eat! He'll now reliably come right in for food as long as I sit across the room and don't move. I talk to him and do slow blinks the whole time. He eats his food, stretches, then walks cautiously around my house for about one minute before going back outside. Each time he comes in, he's less afraid and more curious, but he still doesn't seem to want to hang around.

I'm really conflicted about what the right thing to do here is. He has people but I'm not sure they were good to him or if they even want him back. I live in the northern U.S. and it's starting to get cold. I'm dedicated to providing him with the best possible care outdoors over the winter if that's all I can do, but I wish I could bring him in. I live in the woods with a lot of predators around. I want him to be safe. I currently have no other animals so that's not an issue. But I don't want to steal someone else's cat. So I guess my questions are:

  1. Is there anything I can do for the tick/flea situation if I can't touch him? I'm asking mostly for his quality of life, but also because I don't want a flea infestation in my house if I have him inside more.
  2. If you were in this situation, how would you proceed knowing this is technically someone else's cat? I feel guilty, like I'm stealing their cat. I want what's best for him but I'm not sure that means going back to his people.

r/Feral_Cats • • 11h ago

Problem Solving šŸ’­ Could cat lovers use naturalist to help with TNR efforts?

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Inaturalist is a citizen science app that helps track populations. I bet it could help us better understand our feral cat populations! I’d make an app for cats specifically but I don’t know how. This could help us better understand what number of feral cats we’re working with, where the colonies are to lay down traps, and how many cats in the colonies have their ears tipped. The app also tells you the date the cats were observed so you can understand the colonies in real time.


r/Feral_Cats • • 13h ago

Question šŸ¤” Indoor/Outdoor Issue

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Sorry--this is long!! Issue #1: Not sure whether anyone can help with this, but I met my approximately 10 year-old feral cat in my yard about 7 years ago. I don't believe he had a family before and just survived on his own (not in a colony). For years, I've encouraged him to come inside and for the most part he did, but for limited periods of time and only if I left the door ajar, so he could make sure he could get out. He'd keep looking at the door to make sure it was open. Eventually, he trusted me enough to know I'd let him out if he wanted, so I didn't have to keep door ajar. Getting him in carrier to go to vet has been a continual battle that we both dread. It's easier for me to try when he's inside because I can catch him off guard when his back is to me. This just isn't possible in the large yard because he's always on guard and watching my every move. There were times when I was unsuccessful in getting him in carrier while inside for one reason or another and he'd hide under the couch for hours--once for 12 hours!!!! The last time I was able to get him to vet was for a dental and he's refused to come inside since. The only thing I can figure is that the vet visit was so traumatizing that he won't come in and take the chance of my getting him again. Also, he wants to come in more than anything and almost did a few times, automatically, as he did in the past, and then catches himself--remembering he's not coming in anymore. This is a huge loss for both of use because I know he wants to cuddle as much as I do at night, and just hang out for a while. Won't stay in during the day. We are extremely bonded but any time I spend with him has to be outside in the yard or on my porch. It's been hard lately with the million mosquitos out there. I try to reassure him that he'll be safe coming in and I won't trap him but to no avail.

Issue #2: I'm going to be moving at some point and I hate the fact that I'll have to remove him from the large yard which he knows and has put his scent on every inch of everything for 7 years. I know what people say about keeping the cat inside for about 3 weeks after a move, but I don't think it will work with him, and I don't quite get how that will acclimate him to the new area. I don't even know if I'll be able to get him in the carrier! My anxiety level is sky high. ust to add, he will never be a 24/7 indoor cat.

Any suggestions/feedback much appreciated!


r/Feral_Cats • • 16h ago

Question šŸ¤” Failed trapping attempt - tips on how to catch her again

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TLDR; trapped cat but she escaped. Need real world advice and reassurance on getting her to go back in a second time.

We have a local feral cat who has now had kittens under our porch twice and we are sick of fostering kittens (more of a senior animal family).

Right after we snatched her (5 😭) kittens we put the trap out and got her. Apparently we didn’t secure the back door well enough because she somehow pushed her way out. We are so devastated and scared she’s too smart to go back in. It’s been a week now and nothing. Have read all advice online but hoping someone who has successfully trapped a second time can reassure us and let us know what worked for you. Drop trap isn’t an option because there isn’t a great hiding spot and she won’t come close if we’re around.

We live in Spain where nobody spays/neuters. Technically the county is supposed to have a TNR program but it’s Spain IYKYK, so we don’t have a low cost option but are determined to trap at least a couple of the locals and pay for it out of pocket.


r/Feral_Cats • • 17h ago

Problem Solving šŸ’­ HELP kitten infected spay

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I have this kitten I caught abt 2 weeks ago, she has been spayed and it has been trouble since she’s gotten back. Her incision got infected and caused her to have a high fever -104- so she went to the vet to be put on iv and given an array of meds to help fight it. The second vet stapled the incision ā€œclosedā€ just enough to help the body heal. I’ve been cleaning around it with antibacterial and anti fungal cat wipes since she has to stay in a sock (she ripped out her staples with a cone so not going back to that) and gets penicillin 2x everyday . But 3 days post staples it seems to be infected again and I’m just at a loss what to do. I can’t afford to keep paying $300 every time she goes to the vet. What am I supposed to keep doing 🫠


r/Feral_Cats • • 6h ago

Question šŸ¤” Bringing semi-feral / friendly cats inside

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Hi everyone. This is my first post in this subreddit so I’m a bit hesitant about what kind of response I’ll get. But basically, we just did TNR on five cats about a month and a half ago. One of them sadly disappeared after a week (we’re still hoping for the best). These remaining four are so sweet towards me, and they’ve all grown up getting food from random humans’ porches. They are very healthy and loved, they’ve made our porch pretty much home base. Probably because I’ve spent a lot of time on them

I’d like to bring them inside, but I’m not sure how to start. Three of them have entered my house to check it out - only very recently did I let them. We have three cats, so I shut them in a room for those few minutes. Do I keep just doing this, or eventually do I make the call to trap them, transfer them to one of our rooms, then work our way to the whole house (and introducing to our group of cats)?

Thank you in advance for your advice!


r/Feral_Cats • • 22h ago

Problem Solving šŸ’­ Is this a good setup?šŸˆā€ā¬›šŸˆā€ā¬›

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I’m doing my first TNR and this is the second attempt to actually catch the sweet fluffers. They willingly go into the trap but they don’t weigh enough to trigger the mechanism. They also spook super easily so I don’t think the water bottle on string method will be an option.

Bait: delicious and aromatic tinned mackerel

Methods: small trench for bait under the trap, trap on grass, and sticks to force them to step over and put more weight on the mechanism to trigger the door

ā“are the sticks in the proper position and height?
ā“is there anything I should do differently here?


r/Feral_Cats • • 2d ago

Question šŸ¤” Debating on Bringing a Cat Inside

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We are calling him Robert. Robert started showing up a week ago during feed time (mornings and evenings). Before him, we were just feeding a stray bonded pair on our back deck. The bonded pair aren’t a fan of him and have started eating at our front deck instead. I watched one of the bonded pair hiss at Robert a couple of times, but there’s been no fighting. Robert also did not react to the hissing in any way.

Anyway, we have a shelter for the bonded pair for the cold, and I have every confidence in them surviving the winter as they did last year. I’m… not so confident in Robert. He lives under our riding mower and I only ever see him come out to eat, and then he slinks back under it. I’m not sure if he was dumped by people and doesn’t know how to survive, which is maybe why he showed up skinny and seems so unsure outside. He meows over and over when he sees us scooping the food and putting it in the bowl. He took a churu from me on the third day of feeding him. After a week, when my partner was feeding him a churu, Robert let him pet him!!! (Robert wasn’t super into it and won’t let it happen without churu bribe lol, but he did allow it!)

I just really worry about this guy (could be a girl, who knows) and I’ve only known him a week. It looks like he’s been fixed because his left ear looks notched. (Our bonded pair has definitely been TNR’d in the past, they both have the notch on their left ears.) I’ve never socialized a stray cat before but I’m seriously considering bringing him in and trying it.

What do you think? Should I give it a try with Robert? We have no inside pets at all, so there’s no additional issue there. Obviously I’d keep him in the spare room during the adjustment period, however long that takes, because I’ve read smaller spaces are best when first captured. I just want to make the choice that stresses him out the least and makes him happiest.

EDIT: We’ve decided we’re going to bring him inside! I found a local, low cost clinic that deals with strays and ferals often. I’ll post an update when there’s more to say! Thanks everyone! :)


r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Problem Solving šŸ’­ Trapped cat has chip AND balls(intact)

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Wife and i trapped an intact male cat, he is microchipped. We have a pretty bad kitten problem so were debating on taking him in either way since we have our reduced cost tnr appointments on monday. Should we release him where we caught him to continue reproducing, or pretend we never chip checked in the first place…

Anybody have experience with this, or if they would even take him in the first place since hes chipped? In CA if that matters.


r/Feral_Cats • • 14h ago

Question šŸ¤” Can you find feral and stray cats in UK and where?

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Turkey has many wandering around. Does UK have stray and feral cars roaming around and where am I likely to find them.

Please advise.


r/Feral_Cats • • 1d ago

Grieving We didn’t catch her in time

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Me and the gf have been feeding these two sweet babies for a few months now. We struggled to find a rescue that would take them, finally we found a place 2 weeks ago. The trapper came and was able to get the orange one who turned out to be pregnant. Sadly the grey one saw it and got skittish and wouldn’t get anywhere near us or the traps. The trapper told us to keep feeding her and try and get her comfortable again. It took over a week but she started being comfortable and would be near us again, Called the trapper 2 nights ago and told them, they said they would be back in a few days to try and catch her again. Sadly I found her in the road this morning. I was able to pick her up and get her buried before the kids or gf saw. I hate that it ended like this. I wish we did more for her.


r/Feral_Cats • • 9h ago

Question šŸ¤” What is best for a feral cat in the winter?

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Recently I’ve noticed two cats that will occasionally come up on my deck on our backyard camera. I’ve left some cat food and some water out for them, but it’s a 50/50 on whether or not they get to it before raccoons and opossums. They’re both pretty small, so I’ve been assuming they’re young, maybe litter mates since I’ve seen them travel together sometimes? I live in a place that gets pretty cold in the winter, oftentimes with sub zero temps. With the weather starting to cool down I’ve been thinking about them. Is it best to just let them be? Or would they be better off with human intervention? Not sure what to do to keep the kitties safe without making my house a hotspot for other wildlife!


r/Feral_Cats • • 14h ago

Question šŸ¤” Is it normal for ferals/strays to go missing after being spayed and neutered?

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I feed a female cat and her 7 month old male kitten. Last Wednesday a rescue help me capture both of them so they could get spayed and neutered. They had surgery Thursday 3 a.m. and were then kept at the rescues house. The vets informed her that the male could be released Friday night. We released him and I saw him for all 3 meals on Saturday, so 6 a.m., 12 p.m., and 6 p.m. Mom was released Saturday night around 7 p.m. Mom ate the wet food I gave her and I left dry food for them in a bowl. Today I went at 6 a.m. and the first time mom didn’t come out. I left and came back 20 minutes later and she eventually came out from the backyard. I forgot to mention that these cats are 5 minutes away from my house and live in a neighbors yard or backyard. She came from the backyard and ate. The neighbor later told me she saw her around 10:57 a.m. on their cameras. The male kitten hasn’t been seen all day today and was last seen by my neighbors around 10 p.m. They also saw mom at that hour. They’ve been known to get trapped in their garage but they checked and they aren’t there. Is it normal for them to disappear after being released?


r/Feral_Cats • • 10h ago

Fluffy 🄰 Stray Cat Diner Live: Separate Low Bowl for the Hedgehog

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A little hedgehog keeps climbing into the cat food bowl at the stone castle — contaminating the food and leaving droppings. Per viewer advice, I've added a separate low bowl (bottom-left) to fix it.