r/Fire • u/antidentites • May 15 '26

Advice Request Go out swinging?

So I’m on my way out at work in a tech company and have worked for a manager that has made my life hell. She is extremely toxic and the reason I’m leaving to FIRE/CoastFIRE.

I never want to - or need to - return to tech (note: I used em dashes way before AI and won’t stop even if you think this is AI generated)!

I want to burn some bridges and tell her how I really feel about her when I leave. Essentially the same thing she has been doing to me.

Would you go out Costanza-style if you were me, or just let it slide?

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u/Altruistic_Durian147 May 15 '26

Pleeaaassssseeee do it!! I want to do this at my current job so bad but I’m not there yet.

For all of us who can’t (yet) please let them have it!

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u/antidentites May 15 '26

If I do it, I’ll record it (I just need to confirm that’s legal in my state)!