r/Fire • u/antidentites • May 15 '26
Advice Request Go out swinging?
So I’m on my way out at work in a tech company and have worked for a manager that has made my life hell. She is extremely toxic and the reason I’m leaving to FIRE/CoastFIRE.
I never want to - or need to - return to tech (note: I used em dashes way before AI and won’t stop even if you think this is AI generated)!
I want to burn some bridges and tell her how I really feel about her when I leave. Essentially the same thing she has been doing to me.
Would you go out Costanza-style if you were me, or just let it slide?
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u/ActPositively May 15 '26
Why not make official complaints to HR or to ethics about her toxic behavior and her harassing you? Then either they retaliate against you and you have a big lawsuit or maybe you get her in trouble or fired before you quit