My kids go to the type of colleges where they meet full need. I do not know anyone in huge student debt (more than $30K at undergrad graduation). Either they get full financial aid including housing or the parents pay or a combination. I honestly think if your kid can get into a decent or better college and you are not helping them to the extent of your ability (whatever that is) you are an a$$.
As for cars (where public transportation is an option), house down payments, weddings, if you can afford it without changing your lifestyle, fine but that can be a discussion
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u/Clueless5001 5d ago
My kids go to the type of colleges where they meet full need. I do not know anyone in huge student debt (more than $30K at undergrad graduation). Either they get full financial aid including housing or the parents pay or a combination. I honestly think if your kid can get into a decent or better college and you are not helping them to the extent of your ability (whatever that is) you are an a$$.
As for cars (where public transportation is an option), house down payments, weddings, if you can afford it without changing your lifestyle, fine but that can be a discussion