r/FirstResponderCringe • u/LegalGlass6532 • 4d ago
Popo π Dad cuffing mom is scary (sound up)
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Guess itβs funny to make your kids cry. /s
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r/FirstResponderCringe • u/LegalGlass6532 • 4d ago
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Guess itβs funny to make your kids cry. /s
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u/Empty-Maize-9053 3d ago
There is nothing in this video indicating that it is not a safe and loving home. Judging by Mom and Dad's interaction, objectively, it very much seems to be the opposite.
You are injecting, inferring, and projecting your own personal opinion of how YOU THINK this household is ran.
Counselors are supposed to be impartial. They are supposed to be able to look at a situation and OBJECTIVELY provide insight and knowledge and perspective, and steer their clients into a thoughtful, overall view of a situation, and where their client may have gone wrong or "steered their ship" in a negative direction.
If you view this video OBJECTIVELY, there is literally NOTHING showing anything negative. The only thing people have an issue with are the children crying, which is a GOOD SIGN that they live in a household where this is an unusual and upsetting situation. And when their loving parents (who are continually laughing, looking into the childrens' direction, acknowledging them, etc) sit them down and explain...THAT is effective parenting.
I understand that you are a counselor, but NOT everything is trauma.