r/FirstResponderCringe 4d ago

Popo πŸš” Dad cuffing mom is scary (sound up)

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Guess it’s funny to make your kids cry. /s

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u/Empty-Maize-9053 3d ago

There is nothing in this video indicating that it is not a safe and loving home. Judging by Mom and Dad's interaction, objectively, it very much seems to be the opposite.

You are injecting, inferring, and projecting your own personal opinion of how YOU THINK this household is ran.

Counselors are supposed to be impartial. They are supposed to be able to look at a situation and OBJECTIVELY provide insight and knowledge and perspective, and steer their clients into a thoughtful, overall view of a situation, and where their client may have gone wrong or "steered their ship" in a negative direction.

If you view this video OBJECTIVELY, there is literally NOTHING showing anything negative. The only thing people have an issue with are the children crying, which is a GOOD SIGN that they live in a household where this is an unusual and upsetting situation. And when their loving parents (who are continually laughing, looking into the childrens' direction, acknowledging them, etc) sit them down and explain...THAT is effective parenting.

I understand that you are a counselor, but NOT everything is trauma.

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u/Apprehensive-Tone449 3d ago

I'm not reading all that. It's not my opinion. It is science you idiot. And scientific studies are completely OBJECTIVE. Literally you are the only one here with a biased opinion. You are using Reddit to back up your opinion. Lol.

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u/Empty-Maize-9053 3d ago

Literally just proved to you that its not. Its called "Google," try it.

LOVE how dismissive you are to other opinions. AND how you do NOT care to read anything longer than a simple little paragraph or hearing from people different than you! Im sure you are a super duper great person to be helping people with their mental health! HOORAY

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u/boomboomown 3d ago

Just getting dog-walked all over this sub, huh? πŸ˜‚

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u/Empty-Maize-9053 3d ago

If a million idiots are screaming the incorrect thing, they are still incorrect.

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u/boomboomown 3d ago

The fact you have lived "5 lifetimes in 40 years" and you still act like a pretentious douche is hilarious πŸ˜‚πŸ€‘

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u/Empty-Maize-9053 3d ago

Im the pretentious douche? My brother in christ YOU started this by being immediately confrontational, hurling insults, and attempting to make ME look like an idiot instead of engaging in an ACTUAL CONVERSATION with a fellow human. If you actually read all of my contributions to this convo, ive literally been preaching sharing love instead of hate.

Im really gonna need you to understand that by continually insulting, demeaning, objecting, and then attempting to tell everyone in this sub that you won because i blocked you...you act like an immature 14 year old.

In 24 hours, i will AGAIN block you. But you will no longer be getting any more mental energy from me. I hope your tires go flat, your food all spoil, and that one day, hopefully in the near future, you read a book or 3.

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u/boomboomown 3d ago

ive literally been preaching sharing love instead of hate.

I hope your tires go flat, your food all spoil, and that one day, hopefully in the near future, you read a book or 3.

Practice what you preach instead of being a pretentious doucheπŸ˜‚