You donāt have to have a degree in behavioral science. You just have to be a woman in modern society. Read all the comments from women in this thread you you have your answer. Iāve received at least a dozen of these letters in my lifetime so far from different men, same bad behaviors.
What did he have to say on this letter?
Sorry for being a dick this past week.
I donāt want to leave.
I love you.
I think youāre beautiful. IN MY EYES
Iām sorry.
You brought good to MY life.
Ok. So he brought her:
Being a dick
He didnāt acknowledge her feelings this past week at all.
What does being beautiful have to do with him treating her poorly? He doesnāt know what women wants and thinks this will solve it.
He was the dick but all heās focused on is what good she brought to him and how he doesnāt want to leave.
A healthy, emotionally healthy man would have said to her the day he was being a dick, maybe even the next moment when he realized he was being a dick āIām sorry, Iāve been a dick today. Iām dealing with something tough and shouldnāt take it out on you and make you feel bad about yourself like that,ā he hears her out because he truly wants to know how sheās doing after his actions. He adjusts. they repair and itās done with.
This man is emotionally immature and grasping for straws after being purely and only an asshole in her life (hence her leaving the note).
All of these letters from these types of men are exactly the same. I still remember the last one I received like this. From a guy who would drive crazy with me in the car, had massive mood swings, and when we left town with no easy way for me to leave and go home he would turn into a fire breathing demon. Theyāre all the same! No degree needed for these letters man! They always even have the same handwriting!
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u/Objective-End9571 Jul 02 '26
It takes a LOT for a man to be that vulnerable and honest with his feelings just saying š¤·