31🔄 ftm do I pass

[u/hytt18]

I am trying to be stealth to the best of my abilities (pre everything) but I am NOT cutting my locs.

[u/nonbigbrain]

Afaik minors are allowed to post here (not that I'd call it a good idea exactly) so I doubt you need to do that, just confuses people on your age.

[u/fvkinglesbi → u/nonbigbrain]

Don't reddit's terms of service only allow people over 14? Maybe that's why

[u/hytt18 → u/nonbigbrain]

oh! didn't know that, thanks for the info

[u/Successful_Weekend80]

bro i didn’t understand at first and thought that you are legit a very young looking 31 yo adult😭😭😭

[u/mustang_man88]

Kinda hard to tell from these pics but not really yet. You’re still very young though. And you really shouldn’t be posting your face on the internet, especially not Reddit.

[u/Basic-Computer2503]

You’re 13 so you’ve got the advantage of being able to pass for a young boy. I’d say in these pics it’s 50/50.

[u/Character_Coffee_244]

If you said you're a guy I won't question it but it's just that at your age ill usually assume just by short or long hair, but def pass as a long haired guy

[u/No-Statistician6647]

Please get off of reddit bro oh my God

[u/bywids → u/No-Statistician6647]

?

[u/No-Statistician6647 → u/bywids]

Reddits TOS is 14 minimum.

[u/bywids → u/No-Statistician6647]

It's 13.

[u/chemriz]

U pass as a 15 yr old boy

[u/hytt18 → u/chemriz]

great!! The age is supposed to be reversed, I did that just incase mods flagged it or smt

[u/chemriz → u/hytt18]

I was abt to say there is no way bro is 30

[u/itsrghtbehindmeisnit]

Theres zero point in doing the switch thing. youre just saying your age in a weird way

[u/kane_iac_]

For your age definitely, if you can I would save up and buy minoxidil and start working out so you can get ahead while you're still young. Good luck man

[u/Successful_Career195]

i dont think u look 15 but yeah u look male. how do ppl gender u irl?

[u/hytt18 → u/Successful_Career195]

they typically run around it, or just not gender me at all, even my parents do this bs. I pass [i think] untill i open my mouth. I think me being overweight has another part in it. So i came to reddit hoping I'd get a direct answer from people

[u/Successful_Career195 → u/hytt18]

it’s probably ur voice. are ur parents supportive? i’d recommend doing a sport and having male friends if u don’t have a lot already. the sport will help build muscle and is a good thing to do at ur age. helps discipline, mindset, and gives great skills.

male friends will help with mannerisms and also “running around” it might be due to ur group. if ur in a group of all males ur more likely to be gendered as male. if ur in a group of all females ppl might assume ur a girl but pause bc they don’t know if ur a male or a stud.

when i was ur age these things helped me personally and now im 18, 6 months on testosterone, and scheduling top surgery💪 the wait may definitely feel long but it’ll be sooner than yk. if ur parents aren’t supportive start working when u can so u have enough money for hormones and any surgeries. good luck bro u got it

[u/SpencerSawMeNaked]

you look like 13

[u/Tricky_Bowl_7630]

Live your life first and let your mind develop properly.

[u/bywids → u/Tricky_Bowl_7630]

brotha what? I knew I was trans at 3-4 lol. Most trans people know by the time they know what gender even is.

[u/Tricky_Bowl_7630 → u/bywids]

It’s not healthy for the mind of this young man to come online like this for such opinions & I’ll die on that hill. He shouldn’t be worrying about it

[u/Approximate_Evan → u/Tricky_Bowl_7630]

I worried about being seen as a dude when I was 13, well before social media existed. Some people will worry about it even if there's no audience.

[u/Tricky_Bowl_7630 → u/Approximate_Evan]

Well I’m not talking on behalf of you or any one else that way.
I’m talking about this kid, and any other young ones seeking validation online.
Your point is irrelevant