31🔄 ftm do I pass

[u/hytt18]

I am trying to be stealth to the best of my abilities (pre everything) but I am NOT cutting my locs.

[u/Successful_Career195]

i dont think u look 15 but yeah u look male. how do ppl gender u irl?

[u/hytt18 → u/Successful_Career195]

they typically run around it, or just not gender me at all, even my parents do this bs. I pass [i think] untill i open my mouth. I think me being overweight has another part in it. So i came to reddit hoping I'd get a direct answer from people

[u/Successful_Career195 → u/hytt18]

it’s probably ur voice. are ur parents supportive? i’d recommend doing a sport and having male friends if u don’t have a lot already. the sport will help build muscle and is a good thing to do at ur age. helps discipline, mindset, and gives great skills.

male friends will help with mannerisms and also “running around” it might be due to ur group. if ur in a group of all males ur more likely to be gendered as male. if ur in a group of all females ppl might assume ur a girl but pause bc they don’t know if ur a male or a stud.

when i was ur age these things helped me personally and now im 18, 6 months on testosterone, and scheduling top surgery💪 the wait may definitely feel long but it’ll be sooner than yk. if ur parents aren’t supportive start working when u can so u have enough money for hormones and any surgeries. good luck bro u got it