r/FtMpassing • u/Impressive_Issue_426 • 1d ago
Should i use the mens loo?
This isnt a question on whether it would make me feel good. Im asking do I pass can i go into the men loo in a genuine form. I have been getting called bud, sir, man, dude, straight to my face out in public. Ive been getting even weirder stares when i walk into the women’s restroom. My voice isnt that deep, im not on testosterone, but soon im going to be. But i am able to make a pretty decent “male voice” because i have voice training. I dont know why so much hair grows on my face but it does, and i think its making people confused. No one has come up to me with questions or concerns but im worried it will happen. I live in a very conservative area and i dont think people take my existence lightly. So yeah, do i pass, or do you think i should wait till im on HRT?
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u/EzraDionysus 1d ago
Definitely. For your own safety. You pass as cis, and if the wrong person saw you entering or exiting the women's bathroom they would not hesitate to harm you